I love going barefoot but after a week of romping in The Secret Garden since the official start of 'Outdoor S*x' day on May 8th.....
...my feet are a mess!
Dirty soles, calluses on my heels and big toes,
and chipped toenail polish.
I have one foot worshiper who adores dirty feet, so much so that I will give him (and anyone else who finds this appealing) the opportunity to visit asap to enjoy the feel and smell of my bare feet all over his body. But then, I am very much in need of the restoration of my pretty feet.
It's my favorite time of year, when the warmer weather beckons me into The Secret Garden, daydreaming of an admirer holding me close under the cherry tree to murmur words against the softness of my neck, making me breathless with desire.
My intimate friends are few, for I am quite selective in choosing only those I feel would truly appreciate and adore me, as is my way with those special people in my life. Chemistry and charm are key,but even a thoughtfully written introduction may not shed enough light from a hopeful new friend. Often the only way I can ascertain if I wish to fully reveal my sensual gifts with a lover is to start with an evening of wine and dining. I believe this will be the secret key to future inquiries for those longing for my companionship.
I love the flow of this song, much like the flow of conversation with a charming new friend. And with that flow comes revealing parts of yourself, as you open up with trust and tenderness. To those who find such surprise and sweetness with me, an invitation awaits to enter my Secret Garden. We will take the path to where the sun and breezes touch our secret spots, dip our toes into bubbling fountain of the pond, and the laughter of our discovery together mingles with the lilt of the bird-songs wafting down from the surrounding wood.
I am a pretty, prim, and proper housewife with a sadistic streak. I play when my CEO hubby is away at work and when I have directed the household staff to busy themselves elsewhere.
I am the perfect escape when you only have up to 30 minutes to spare and those dirty secrets inside you are just ready to burst.
Warning: These brief encounters will surely fuel your fire. Beware, for I am a kind, but cruel woman and will expect you to adhere to my protocol and demands willingly and eagerly.
The lovely and joyous Joy consented to see me on My Birthday Weekend Marathon of playdates, a very hot Friday afternoon…….I met her with a flowerpot full of little flowers that were just beginning to bloom, and she promptly took me outside to her secret garden (my first time outside)…….it was wonderful….quiet, peaceful, relaxing, with a lovely little breeze running through it to help keep us nice and cool (well, for a little while, anyway!)
Joy is fully in her element there, had the table all set up, cold water and a birthday cupcake there for me, and a wonderful fun and pleasure experience waiting. She is so good at that! Laughter, giggles, beautiful smiles, lots of hugs, and of course, lots of fun was all included!
I highly recommend going out to the garden if she should suggest it, and of course, you can always ask to go out there and get pampered like I did!
Early last week I had the pleasure of enjoying my first visit with Joy in her secret garden. Her garden is in a secluded spot well equipped with massage table and all other amenities including refreshments. It was a gorgeous day to have a Healing Touch outside with a gentle breeze blowing and hearing her soft voice saying the sweetest things to me. In her secret garden is a place I can let my hair down, inhibitions go and be worry free.
I have had many other types of visits with Joy and this was truly a new experience in her garden, each time is different and invigorating . She is so in tune with my body and mind, and leaves no part of the body untouched. She has devised a new way to massage my prostate and the outcome is unbelievable . She also has her devious little mind suggesting things that I've never thought of. I definitely must see her as often as possible.
How exciting is that? If you are at all like me, you enjoy being in nature and feeling the soft breezes and rays of sun caress your skin.
Here's my first image for the day ...
Go to http://www.wngd.org/
From their site -
"Why garden naked? First of all, it's fun! Second only to swimming, gardening is at the top of the list of family-friendly activities people are most ready to consider doing nude. Moreover, our culture needs to move toward a healthy sense of both body acceptance and our relation to the natural environment. Gardening naked is not only a simple joy, it reminds us--even if only for those few sunkissed minutes--that we can be honest with who we are as humans and as part of this planet."
If you'd like, send me photos of you enjoying this special day and I will add them to this post!
What is beyond simple descriptions, is Joy's soul, sprit, and enthusiasm for meeting your desires.
Joy is to her core, a most engaging, sensual, erotic adventure. She has an intuitive understanding of who you are, what you need, and knows how to make it all come to fruition.
My first (yes, I will most certainly return) adventure with her has made memories that will stay with me. I first went to her private Love Nest, easy to find, no parking issues, comfortable and welcoming. I got to meet Lil Beast, tour her wonderful adventure rooms, and rest in her Secret Garden. Her foot bathing ritual is relaxing, sensual, engaging in a way that is difficult to capture in words.
My preference is for engagements that build, give us time to know one another. So I requested an experience where she would accompany me for an evening of dining and enjoying music. She is a delightful companion, and I could not keep my eyes off of her smile. As I had learned of her musical inclinations, the performance we attended was in my mind, a bit of foreplay for each of us.
Later, we retired to my hotel, with a relaxing soaking tub waiting. Somehow, she anticipated every moment, enhancing the moment with scents and candle lights.
I am still finding my way after many years of inactivity, and she provided a perfect balance of support and stimulation, reaffirming my re-entry to discovery of intimacy and all the joys that come with it.
I am not one for detailed descriptions. Just let me say, that she attended to my needs, more than once, much to my amazement.
Miss Joyfull is, simply put, a sensual, erotic joy to spend time with. Her engagement in my pleasure, in making it a memorable time for me, was beyond my expectations.
You know those weeds that drive you crazy. Strong, persistent. They keep coming back no matter what, as if they just want your acceptance or to be seen and recognized despite their label as unappealing.
Now let me take you to my Secret Garden and revisit those 'weeds' that you despise. Even my dear friend, Joanne, who is such a free-spirited, open-minded woman, like myself, has these strong feelings regarding dandelions and buttercups for instance. I love teasing her by daring to blow the dandelion seeds into the wind, as she looks on horrified.
She used to try to pry dandelions up out of the earth when she visited, ripping them from her view and tossing them into the yard waste bin. She does the same with buttercups. I, on the other hand, enjoy frolicking in the nude in the middle of a bed of buttercups that threatens to take over my entire Secret Garden. I adore the brilliance and boldness of the yellow dandelion head that seems to get bigger and rounder each spring.
Admittedly, there are times when even I've weeded for growth to occur in other neighboring plants, like the above plant (can anyone identify it?) that will choke the Lily of the Valley from receiving any sunlight. But I find plants like the dandelion, buttercup, and above variegated leafy plant glorious in their own right. My lovely friend sees the beauty in them too, when she isn't so focused on keeping the garden tidy. In fact, she recently marveled that dandelion leaves and flowers possess many health benefits.
Let's take those weeds into another perspective. I have found that weeds are often like those persons in our world that are ostracized for being different or disregarded, for not fitting in with the norm. These are people longing for a connection, to feel accepted, to be admired, stroked, cared for, but they go unnoticed, unappreciated, and unfulfilled in some of their deepest desires. Passion is stifled as an experience unattainable, for shame and unworthiness represses their yearnings, much like that weed blocking the sun from the Lily of the Valley. Perhaps you are someone who has had these experiences.
Yes, I may be mixing up many of my thoughts, but I'm really just trying to say.....there are lovely souls who see you, accept you, and care for you just the way you are. I feel so honored with all those who visit with me on my lusty adventures. There may be many who never share intimacy between two except through the unique opportunity I, or others like me, offer. Thank god for open-minded, accepting, whole-hearted, harmonious individuals who help others learn to embrace themselves, just the way they are. How healing is that! It's no wonder that I find my healing touch practice to be so deeply rewarding. It truly is an art leading a heart-filled life.
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Perhaps if you are someone who has hoped to be held, heard, and honored...
Let me embrace you.
Let me help to shine the light on the beauty of your uniqueness.
Let me listen as you voice your desires.
Let me show you how you could toss your fears aside and unleash your passion.
Let me hold your hand on your path...
as you are your glorious self,
just the way you are.
Here is one of my favorite recordings of The Piano Guys
with a cover of a Bruno Mars song "Just The Way You Are"
I was recently asked what my favorite flowers were. I have such a difficult time being asked about favorites on any topic, but especially flowers. I'm fascinated with flowers, not only for their beauty, but as a science nerd, their complexity astounds me.
This time of year completely thrills me, as everything blooms. No one believes me when I say it looks like it has been snowing outside! Here is the flowering cherry having its way with me.
Many of my admirers have brought me living flowering plants, so that I
might enjoy them as long as my green thumb doesn't go south. It does on
occasion, as I tend to be dreamy and free-spirited and forget routines
and such. I've had shamrocks, lilies, cyclamen, christmas cactus, ivy,
tulips, orchids, bamboo, bleeding heart, clematis, impatiens, daisies, amaryllis,
roses, and even a venus flytrap (that naughty boy)! And then the beautiful cut flower arrangements. I just love them all!
It is an ecstatic state of being, not only in the Secret Garden, but in my Love Nest as well. I delighted in capturing the blooms in and around and even tucked in a naughty little gem that you might or might not be able to spot.
A new addition to the Secret Garden this year will be a formal rose garden, enhanced by iris and hydrangea and an herb garden for the secret aromatherapy and herbal concoctions I use on you. The idea just makes me swoon. Add you to the mix and you may end up kidnapped and tied to the cherry tree, but that's a whole 'nother story! (You might have had an idea that rope would be somewhere)
Perhaps you can help transform the Secret Garden, if you are thinking of a birthday gift for that cute little Earth Goddess in your life.
I might add that I've been learning how 'added warmth and sun have helped my petals to spread even wider as I spread and receive the pollens of a life being richly lived...'
I am indeed richly blessed to live as a 'muse and a sensually deep creature', just the right type of person another special person of discerning tastes would be drawn to.
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 5 - Flower Power
Flowers are always a romantic gift to give in this month celebrating Valentine's Day. What can you do to make it a bit special? Perhaps consider a potted flowering plant that could be transplanted into the garden when it is warmer, or continue to bloom all year round in the house. That way your thoughtfulness is a constant reminder to your lover. I must confess that I have potted plants from loving admirers all throughout my little Love Nest and Secret Garden - Christmas Cactus, Shamrocks, Ivy, Bleeding Heart, Orchids, and more. As much as I adore a beautiful bouquet of cut flowers, I love pampering my plant gift and remembering special times with a special someone.
Now, take one more step along the garden path and, if you have someone in your life who has a real thing for flowers (like me), you might consider the wonderful romantic gesture of taking them to the Northwest Flower and Garden Show, taking place at the Convention Center right now through this weekend. Just think of how your lover's desire will blossom to thank you properly for such a thoughtful gift of spending time with you in the beautiful gardens displayed at the show.
And then you can test yourself on the first 5 days of suggestions of 28 Ways to be a Better Lover and see if your lover fully blooms from your attention to kissing, play, undressing, aphrodisiacs, and a gift of flowers.
On a personal note ~ share what's blooming in your life with your lover. Winter is the perfect time to plant the seeds of dreams, thoughts, and new ideas. You may be surprised and delighted to find what new growth appears from sharing your dreams with someone who is deeply intimate with you. Of course I'm not just talking about the growth you experience every time you are with your lover, but most certainly there would be growth in revealing and reveling in new ways to experience pleasure with your lover.
See what interesting things pop up and, if you need even more inspiration, I'd love to plant a few bouquets of kisses on you to see where you'd like to bloom.
Joy is all about
your enjoyment, and hers. Warm, engaging personality. Intelligent and
easy to talk with. She takes care of you, in all ways. Incredibly
responsive to my attempts to please her. Skillful, persistent, creative
French to the end - my eyes rolled back in my head and I did not know
where I was for a bit.
She has more toys than I know
what to do with - glad SHE knew!
There are the incredibly beautiful, the athletes, the soulful
who make you think you could fall in love, the spiritual. Joy revels in
the fun of it all - and when you are with her, so do you.
Welcome to my Secret Garden, a perfect sensual oasis on warm, sunny days. And the scene of domestic bliss. Mine, that is.
Here is one reason why ~
May I introduce my Butler? He is a wonderful addition of my household staff. Respectful, eager to please, and attentive to all my needs....especially when I'm feeling a bit mischievous.
Note his wonderful attire. His personally styled rope harness. And a black tie, though I now realize why a bow-tie is preferred. His attention to my feet had that pesky tie in the way, but he quickly found a solution and administered the most wonderful foot bath and massage!
In May the garden is always blooming with a riot of colorful flowers. One must take good care to keep them watered adequately, and even my willing Butler was prepared to accept a good dose from the watering can to encourage full blooming potential of his own, amongst other unmentionable, curious activities to titillate me and stimulate his responses. I found the chain necessary to secure him to a tree, shouldst he wilt under my devious explorations.
I enjoy this facet of Miss J.F.'s kinky interests - Slave Training and Domestic Service. I have a large household with many potentials for those who are willing and trainable, and interested in a power exchange such as this with a more formalized protocol. Perhaps you would like to join my household staff as head gardener, chef, footman, parlour maid, ladies maid/manservant, or chauffeur, or just explore a SLAVE FOR A DAY experience.
Applications are available for the serious devotee, please email Miss J.F. to inquire and state your interest.
Ah, warm weather! What better way to celebrate sun-drenched days and balmy evenings than to open up your senses to a whole new sexy array of stimulating sounds and scents.
If you've always wondered how it feels to 'dare to go bare',
here are some options for becoming a member of
Joyfull's Outdoor Adventure Club
* For the novice - Never shared an intimate moment with someone special in the great outdoors? Perhaps a short romp through the garden and discover the sensation of the sun on your bare skin, a breeze touching the fine hairs on your back, lounging comfortably entwined in the most pleasurable of ways, whilst gazing up at the sky. Perhaps bringing foreplay to its peak only to escape to the comfort and privacy of a soft bed indoors for further exploration. * For the adventurous - a suitable location out-of-doors for titillation, adoration, and complete restoration. You may even feel bold enough to include a wet slip-and-slide, some table time for healing touch, or a bit of shibari bondage for the true tree-lover.
For especially hot days - popsicles included!
* For the seasoned outdoorsman and possible exhibitionist who likes to live on the edge - A nearby park, waterfall, and pathways for the logger and his wood nymph to frolic in the forest, with option to return to the secret garden for complete ravishment of the captured woodsman. * Or any variation of the above to suit your specific interests.
Mild to Wild!
The Nymph's favorite waterfall.
Aren't you wondering what she has hidden in her basket?
Join me in my Secret Garden,
I can't wait to encourage the erotic
I've discovered a new path to passion, just one of many that I enjoy exploring, as I discover more about myself as a healthy, sexual, vibrant woman. I will share more in the next several entries of this blog, and also encourage you to share where some of your paths have taken you, either in private email or in responding in the comments section.
Perhaps one of your paths will lead you directly into my Secret Garden of Desires. Be careful, for I am *R.M.O. and possess a **Beautiful Butterfly and ***Divine Nectar.
My door is open. Come with me and we'll explore together!