The Secret Garden

It's my favorite time of year, when the warmer weather beckons me into The Secret Garden, daydreaming of an admirer holding me close under the cherry tree to murmur words against the softness of my neck, making me breathless with desire.

My intimate friends are few, for I am quite selective in choosing only those I feel would truly appreciate and adore me, as is my way with those special people in my life.  Chemistry and charm are key,but even a thoughtfully written introduction may not shed enough light from a hopeful new friend.  Often the only way I can ascertain if I wish to fully reveal my sensual gifts with a lover is to start with an evening of wine and dining.  I believe this will be the secret key to future inquiries for those longing for my companionship.

I love the flow of this song, much like the flow of conversation with a charming new friend.  And with that flow comes revealing parts of yourself, as you open up with trust and tenderness.  To those who find such surprise and sweetness with me, an invitation awaits to enter my Secret Garden.  We will take the path to where the sun and breezes touch our secret spots, dip our toes into bubbling fountain of the pond, and the laughter of our discovery together mingles with the lilt of the bird-songs wafting down from the surrounding wood.

An Erotic Story - A Most Sensual Adventure

What is beyond simple descriptions, is Joy's soul, sprit, and enthusiasm for meeting your desires.

Joy is to her core, a most engaging, sensual, erotic adventure.  She has an intuitive understanding of who you are, what you need, and knows how to make it all come to fruition.

My first (yes, I will most certainly return) adventure with her has made memories that will stay with me. I first went to her private Love Nest, easy to find, no parking issues, comfortable and welcoming. I got to meet Lil Beast, tour her wonderful adventure rooms, and rest in her Secret Garden. Her foot bathing ritual is relaxing, sensual, engaging in a way that is difficult to capture in words.

My preference is for engagements that build, give us time to know one another. So I requested an experience where she would accompany me for an evening of dining and enjoying music. She is a delightful companion, and I could not keep my eyes off of her smile. As I had learned of her musical inclinations, the performance we attended was in my mind, a bit of foreplay for each of us.

Later, we retired to my hotel, with a relaxing soaking tub waiting. Somehow, she anticipated every moment, enhancing the moment with scents and candle lights.

I am still finding my way after many years of inactivity, and she provided a perfect balance of support and stimulation, reaffirming my re-entry to discovery of intimacy and all the joys that come with it.

I am not one for detailed descriptions. Just let me say, that she attended to my needs, more than once, much to my amazement.

Miss Joyfull is, simply put, a sensual, erotic joy to spend time with. Her engagement in my pleasure, in making it a memorable time for me, was beyond my expectations.

I'm in the mood for love

Those who know me, know how important I find stimulating my largest sex organ, my brain.  So I found it fascinating to listen to this collection of Ted Talks regarding love and sexuality.  Who doesn't love Ted Talks?

http://www.ted.com/playlists/143/in_the_mood_for_love?awesm=on.ted.com_a0JR8&utm_content=awesm-publisher&utm_campaign=&utm_source=t.co&utm_medium=on.ted.com-twitter

I count myself fortunate to be in a position to love many, to encourage them to open their hearts to love, explore love and intimacy, and learn to love oneself more and more in order to live a vibrant, whole-hearted life.  Yes, it's a risky process. Undoubtedly.

Many have asked, "Do you seek the love of your life, even though you make yourself available to those who are seekers requesting assistance and your feminine essence?"

"Unequivocally, yes," I say.

"Joy seeking love..."

I find it curious at the interconnectedness of my life, that a lovely gent sends me a link to this video
as I pen this very blog entry about love.
It is "Love Exists" (Celine Dion) sung by Genevieve Jodoin.

Resurrection. Soaring Through Touch

It's all about resurrections this week.  Of many sorts.  
 
Not only because this Sunday is a deeply profound holy day for some and a fun holiday for many;
but also because 'resurrection', meaning a rising again, as from disuse; a recovery, reawakening, and rebirth, can be applied so beautifully to us. 
As in, what makes us experience life in a vibrant and exciting way, what makes us feel alive? 
I find myself thinking symbolically of those deeply profound experiences I've shared with a lover
of orgasmic 'rising again and reawakening'.

I find touch to be healing, especially in an intimate expression with a lover, a lover that is devoted to uplifting you to a new awareness.  Likewise, participating in my lover's resurrection, so to speak, is powerful for me.  It is their time to let go and melt into bliss under my luxurious and loving touch.  That said, it is not always easy to let go.

For my lover that enjoys surrendering fully to my control of their resurrection, things can get a bit kinky.  They will not be able to escape my focus, as we explore a variety of new sensations, pushing them closer and closer, edging toward ultimate release.

The goal in either of these touch styles is the journey seeking vibrancy in our entire being.
 
I find great inspiration from music during intimacy.  This is especially moving at this time of year - Leonard Bernstein conducting the final movement of
Gustav Mahler's "Resurrection Symphony".

A passionate piece to be sure, and orgasmic for those who have the ears to truly hear.

It gives me reflection of how lovers conduct all the movements of their 'Resurrection Symphony' together.

There with and for each other,
through soaring and finally when ready to come back down to earth.

She says, He says

 She says

I’m smiling up at him, lost in the ecstasy of the moment, where we’ve arrived after a winding journey of talk, wine, dinner, coffee, more talk, but the sharing kind, the kind that leads to smiling, leaning in, hovering, kissing, and well, where we are right now.  

My hand rests on his broad chest, fingers lightly winding through his curly hair.  Even from the first moments of slowly peeling away the layers of his clothing, I felt his body quiver and I watched him in fascination, as moans escaped his mouth.  He was a thirsty man, lost to all the world, soaking in the sensations of my tender touch.  Trust led to unleashed passion and revealed a depth and power that surely surprised us both.  Even now, after floating on wave upon wave of orgasmic bliss and able to muster a secret smile, I marvel that his masculine essence is like none I've never known.

~~~

He says

I see her beautiful face, so bright and engaging during drinks and dinner.  Now she’s serious, maybe not even aware of where she is, traveling from one orgasm to another, pinned underneath me, pushed down into the bed.  Her hands have lost their grip on my shoulders, her legs have slipped away from my thighs, leaving her entire body open, writhing, gushing, defenseless. 

She’s quickly losing strength, but I can’t stop myself, and she rises to yet one more occasion to celebrate her uniquely sexual center.  She’s looking right into my eyes, widely staring at me, mouth open in awe at the moment, almost unconscious, but not fearful.  She’s learned over the years how to get to this point and she loves how quickly and often she can go there.  And I've learned over longer years how to be attentive, patient, and true to my Southern roots practice "ladies first."  But in this encounter, this moment, it's different for me and I think for her as well.   I’m not in control, but also not under her control.  There is no control, just a changing of leads as we dance into each other more and more deeply.  Smiles will come with memories, but this moment is so intense, there is no room or strength left for smiles, just feelings and fluids.  I’ll remember this moment for the rest of my life.

It takes Two to Tango

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.

 

Day 11 -  The Dance of Intimacy

It has always been my secret passion to be a great dancer.

It is my secret passion to have the perfect dance partner. 

The perfect dance?

Oblivion - The Tango of Intimacy

A dance brimming with passion.

Who says it better than Robert Frost? 

 "Dancing is a vertical expression of horizontal desires."

The moment you step close, pulses quicken.  You can feel the arousal, the heat in each other's body.  And then with just the lightest touch of your hands on each other electrifying the moment, the energy turns into action and you begin to move together...

it is like poetry in motion.

How do you describe the sensations when you dance with a lover?

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The writer of tangocorazon.wordpress.com, who has a life long search for the essence of tango, uses these adjectives to describe tango:
Dynamic, sensual, social, fascinating, playful, romantic, improvisational, elegant, fun, challenging, transcendent, accessible, clear, vivacious, luscious, graceful, refined, superlative, awesome, sublime, frisky, lively, captivating, alluring, intriguing, delightful, pleasurable, and mysterious.

These are perfect adjectives to describe the relationship between two lovers as well.  Use these adjectives as creative inspiration to create a dance of intimacy with your partner.

Take a step further and actually take dance lessons with your sweetheart.  It would be a wonderful gift for the upcoming romantic holiday.

Or

For further inspiration,  a performance of the simply outstanding Mark Morris Dance Group at The Paramount Theatre in Seattle, February 14 through 16, 2014.
New Love Song Waltzes, which has become something of a signature piece of the company, gives expression to an all-embracing amorous gusto.
Love Song Waltzes is, in comparison, a more thoughtful, more restrained view of passion.
Two ravishing dance works are performed to Brahms’ song cycles, Neue Liebeslieder Walzer and Liebeslieder Walzer. They effect a deeply affecting homage to loving relationships of every kind and size. Set to Brahms’ Liebesliederwalzer, Op. 52, and Neue Liebesliederwalzer, Op. 65, they paint a revealing picture of love in our time.

Any way you choose to consider dance, celebrate the expression of passion in this art form as indeed another way to be a better lover.

An Element of Surprise

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.

Day 3 - Undress your lover - s l o w l y

I always love undressing my lovers.  It's that element of surprise, like unwrapping a present.  Peeling back layer upon layer and finding bare skin, softly caressing each little patch exposed to my eyes, and noting how their body responds, watching their face flicker with pleasure as they feel my hot breath on their bare skin.  It's as if they don't want me to catch them enjoying this oft forgotten act of intimacy.  Most of my lovers strip off their clothes casually, tossing them aside while reaching at me eagerly to 'get it on'. 

That's not to say that spontaneous combustion like the picture below isn't EXCITING!

It IS!  It WAS!

But, back to my seductive plan.  I do love a subtle approach.  

You may notice that S L O W E R is a part of my daily mantra.  

And so, when I've gotten halfway through removing my lover's clothes, and I notice them grinning from ear to ear, perhaps eyes closed, moaning or groaning, and a bit wet as well, I know I've been successful.

I have one lover who loves to surprise me from time to time, and the last time I got ready to peel off his whitey tighties, his eyes twinkled as he said, "I have a surprise for you!"  As I cautiously pulled back the band at the top, decorative gel hearts cascaded to the floor.  His briefs were overflowing with love (lust) for me!  What fun and what a great surprise.

I occasionally will have a surprise for my lover to discover beneath my clothes, but only if I know it will be appreciated.  I love beautiful lingerie and sexy fripperies, but there are many who just want to get it off and don't notice it.  By the way, I'll write more about those seductive underthings in another post to come during the 28 Ways (Days) to be a Better Lover.   In the meantime, if I could just convince my lover to go slower and give me the same opportunity to savor being unwrapped.  I suggest more practice....practice undressing a woman carefully, gracefully, seductively, showing you appreciate her with each layer you remove, and see how ready she is for you!

Midsummer's Dreams Through The Looking Glass

I'd be remiss if I didn't share those Joy-filled moments I experience 

with my gentlemen admirers of  

Caresses

 Intimacy

Bliss

Laughter

Repose 

Such passion I've been fortunate to experience with my lovers,
how I treasure and adore them all.

Enchanted, I'm sure!

Japanese-Inspired Bondage

I continue to receive inquiries regarding Shibari Practice Sessions.  Why does this excite me?

I find that many men who visit me crave the opportunity to let go, to release control to a trusted woman who will wrap them up with intricate knots, use them, toy with them, and claim them for their own pleasure.  They love the whole 'Tease And Denial' thing.  And Shibari or Japanese-Inspired Bondage can be that, but it is most assuredly different than experiences with leather and being cuffed.

As any smart student I have experienced rope bondage myself, so that I can better understand the mind space one enters when being bound.  And I continue to learn through many resources, from hands on practicums and written syllabuses with experts from around the world, to the internet and books, to the best learning opportunities possible - practicing on you and learning from your feedback and experience.
 
Turning you into an erotic work of art is just the first part of my pleasure.  There is a lovely intimacy shared between the one doing the binding and the one being bound.  It is rather difficult to explain.  Again, it is through experience that one can gain a greater understanding.  I am honored to have had many gentlemen eager to sample this experience.

Just check out this sexy, young man for example:

All I can say is yummy!  He is a wonderful, willing, not to mention SEXY practice volunteer!

I love the opportunity to be the Sensual Domme, 

to express my kinkiness in this way.

Here is another example of an older gentleman, who possesses an incredible stamina in a most twisted fashion.  The front side of this example is too hot to handle.  Well, it wasn't for me, at the time!

The second part of my pleasure comes from your response as my erotic playtoy!

One friend who frequents Shibari Practice Sessions requested a blindfold.  He says, "The blindfold added a whole new dimension. You have no idea of the pattern she is creating, the textures you will feel or how you respond to them. I could go into great detail, but things I felt may not feel the same to you."

Another comment from an established friend of mine who requests Shibari as a component of his Courtesan Encounter shares how he loved how "she would touch, tease, fondle, pinch, tickle, lick, lick, kiss, nibble and ride me to her hearts content."

I hope to entice more willing participants into my web of mischief.  Both gentlemen and ladies. 

You will surely find such a surrender 'spell-binding.'