In The Light Of The Moon ~ a masturbation masquerade

You nervously knocked at the door, but were reassured by your Lady's mischievous smile, as she welcomed you in.  She would make certain that your concerns were appeased, as she promised in her recent invitation to you of a new adventure.  The invitation read:

Miss J.F. wrote that this would be an unusual event to harness the erotic power of the Full Moon.  The invitation list would include only her well-established friends who particularly enjoy activities under her tutelage, that could include bondage, blindfolds/masks, cbt, discipline, domination, and forced bi.  You trembled with excitement, thinking about the possibilities.  You had expressed your desires to your Lady about just exactly those things.  But being recognized was a deep-seated fear.  What if someone from work recognized you.  Just the thought of being discovered brought panic to your mind, scrambling your thoughts.

As you spoke privately later by phone with Miss J.F., she assured you that for those who harbored these very real fears, she had the perfect solution.  It would be very simple to arrange for arrivals to be spaced out, giving each person a moment to enter The Manor, and choose a seat for the adventure to come, placing a blindfold over the face until all had arrived.  If total anonymity was requested a full mask would suffice throughout the entire evening.  You could almost hear Miss J.F. grinning wickedly as she reminded you that she would secure you...or a part of you... in some fashion as well.

You laughed nervously and asked "What if...", but she interrupted to say that all safety measures, personal boundaries, and consensuality protocols would be her priority, in order for all to participate comfortably.  You knew this to be true, for in all the times you had visited her Chamber, even when an additional Domme or sub were invited, you always felt safe, but still dying with excitement.  So now, as you climbed the stairs to the Chamber, you grinned with crazy anticipation.  You were the first scheduled to arrive, and knew that you would have the opportunity to hear others arriving and being directed in the same way.  You suspected that others would be voyeuristic too, and that excitement was also fueling your fire.  

Once in the Chamber, she whispers, "Now, it is time.  I am going to peel off your clothing, revealing you to everyone who comes into this space.  You will be heard by all, seen by some, and definitely watched by me as I tease and tantalize you.  I will demand you follow my instructions, and take great pleasure to see how each and every one of my guests responds for me tonight,....in the light of the moon."

Reaching For The Moon

The enchantment of the moon tugs at the heart strings of those who are open to a magical life.

Here is a lovely haiku from such a person.  

How fortunate I am to have such an admirer ~

Haiku for an August Moon

– dedicated to Miss Joy

sleep was evasive

the moon so bright and so close

it enlivened me

on my deck I watched

the shadows of evergreens

the moon a spotlight

awash in moonlight

the open bedroom window

pulls the beams to me

awakening to

accept the last of night's gift

I am now renewed

by Mars Laurent

Listen to this lovely song sung by Lizz Wright, 
a luscious voice like velvet sliding sensuously over your body.

Now imagine the velvety touch of my nipples as they stroke your back, 

followed by the silky strands of my hair.

Is your skin tingling now?  Slow down your breath and sink deeper into bliss.

Relax and renew your mind, body, and spirit

under my healing touch.

I'll be reaching for the moon with you.

Starry-Eyed

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.

 

 Day 13 - Star Gazing

 

 

What better time than a Full Moon evening to gaze up at the stars.  Surely you've experienced a romantic night with a lover, enjoying the Full Moon's enchantment.  As a teen, I recall parking at an overlook and admiring the night sky, as well as being all starry-eyed with the sexy person next to me....that is, until the policeman rapped on the car window and told us to move along.  We couldn't see him approaching because the car windows were fogged up.  Bring back memories?

 

If you are a serious stargazer, you'll know that the right place and the right moment, maybe even the right telescope or binoculars are needed to notice the small things. 

 

Isn't that a lot like having a lover?  If you watch them closely enough, you'll come to realize that they have certain ways about them that you will come to adore.  You come to be attuned with their bodies, with what charges them up and makes them feel good.  Most people only see these things after a long time in their relationships, but if you get a head start noticing those small details, you can be a better lover right now with the one you're with.

 

By all means, be starry-eyed and enjoy the rush of excitement, but if you balance that with paying attention to details, you'll fly to the moon and back!

 

I've Succumbed!

I've succumbed to:
(a multiple choice game)

1. The Magic of the Moon
did you see that moon last night?!

2. The Magnetism of YOU

desired by a woman on the prowl 

who knows just what she wants

Will my moon in boots and black lace do it for you?

3. The Miserable Cold of the Season. 

 

As long as I've got my love to keep me warm.

 

 

What's your guess?!
A special prize awaits the correct answer.
 Email me! - purelyjoyfull@gmail.com

Moon Goddess

Most of my friends know of my fascination with the moon.  I find the full moon energy quite enchanting.

This year I had the pleasure of dressing up for Halloween as 

The Moon Goddess!

Even equipped with a silvery magic wand....though the beautiful moon hovering above the silvery branches (a helium balloon) burst before I could arrive at my party destination.

Here is a closer look at my Milky Way...

It was delightful to have several of my gentlemen admirers singing "Fly Me To The Moon", "Blue Moon", and the like to me.  They will receive a gold star the next time they step into my arms.


They say that the Moon is a Harsh Mistress...

You will find the contrary with me...my heart and touch are both so warm and wondrous.

Perhaps because I am starry-eyed over you.

An Erotic Story

How High The Moon

I immediately became aware there was some chemistry between Miss J.F. (Joy) and I when we discovered we shared similar interests.  Further e-mails led to very sexy flirtations.  Due mostly to my scheduling constraints we were not able to meet for a couple of weeks.  I decided to meet first for social time at a Thai restaurant in her neighborhood.  After 90 minutes of dinner, sharing a bottle of wine, soft talk, gentle caresses and sweet kisses I was busting out of my seams by the time I got to Ms. J.F.’s in call.  As I got out of my car I mentioned that, and she just *had* to check me out right there on the street to verify!

Our date was on a full moon and she put together a playlist of mp3’s on her laptop that each had the theme of moon in it somewhere.  We walked in to hear Ella Fitzgerald singing “How High the Moon” (one of my favs).  After the necessary formalities we proceeded to go at each other as any boy and girl might who hit it off big on the first date.  OMG she is just amazing!  Ms. J.F. is super imaginative and I get the impression she’d cater to almost any whim or fantasy you have.  In my case the GFE fantasy was all I had in mind so she gave it her full attention.   Her French skills are about as good as they come and one gets the impression she is enjoying it nearly as much as you are.  After French I declined both of Joy’s kind offers of massage table and tying me to the bed and proceeded to the usual boy and girl activities I know and love.  One nice thing about Joy is that she gushes when she cums.  We ended in missionary.  I was just about thinking it was time to take off the rain coat and let her finish me off when the water came and she came.  The excitement of Joy’s orgasm and the warm fluid dripping off my balls pushed me over the edge and I joined her in a delightful orgasm.

Moonstruck

Once in a Blue Moon.........I need a helping hand!

Can you believe August is a Blue Moon Month?  If you are anything like me, I find full moon energy to be quite compelling.  Just seeing it fills me with a sense of awe and magic.  I want to dig my hands in deep and explore all things hedonistic.  Lust and lasciviousness prevail.  Just think, August will have two full moons!  This will be an exciting month for sure and I'm hoping you'll have a hand in the exploration of that.

So, speaking of needing a hand, or giving you something to do with your hands, I just had to share the following article with you....for who wouldn't like to save all mankind?  ;)

How a Woman’s Orgasm Can Save a Man
Hugo Schwyzer

Can teaching guys how to give women orgasms prevent the much-heralded "end of men"? As far-fetched as it sounds, one rapidly growing organization claims that equipping men to make women come is the solution to the much-vaunted masculinity crisis.

"Learn Orgasmic Meditation and everything that goes with it," urges the website for One Taste, a San Francisco-based organization that promises to help women move beyond the pursuit of a quick climax and into the realm of the 15-minute orgasm....

The basic technique of OM hasn't changed in recent years: a "stroker" caresses what Daedone claims is a woman's most sensitive spot, the upper-left quadrant of the clitoris. The "stroker" (almost always a man) is fully clothed; the woman being stroked is only naked from the waist down. The traditional practice lasts 15 minutes; rather than producing a single sharp climax, an OM is an extended orgasm that may or may not have a distinct peak. When Salon's sex writer Tracy Clark-Flory observed a public OM session, she found it "arousing and deeply bizarre."

Men stroke; women are stroked. ... She claims that an experienced male stroker can receive every bit as much ecstasy from OM as the woman whose clitoris he's caressing.

But the real payoff of OM for a man goes beyond his delight in watching a woman orgasm beneath his fingertip. ... OM gives men a sense of mastery, not just of women's bodies, but of themselves. If it's true that there's nothing straight men want to know more than to how to please a woman, then it follows that if they figure out how to do that well and consistently, they'll receive a boost of confidence that will bleed over into every other aspect of their lives.

Ken Blackman, a 48 year-old former Apple software engineer who is now One Taste's "senior stroker," told me that One Taste had transformed his life. He came to the OM practice as a self-described "short nerd" who was desperate to learn tips for becoming great in bed. What he found instead was a whole new way of relating to women and to himself. According to Blackman, becoming a great stroker (Daedone praises him as among the very best she's taught) has little to do with technique and more to do with cultivating "a talent for play." "Women want men who have a demonstrated capacity for handling the truth," he says; "OM teaches guys how not to be intimidated by the full intensity of women's hunger."

Pick-up artists often promise male clients the same thing: insight into "what women really want" as well as an injection of much-needed confidence. When I ask Blackman about the comparison between OM and the purveyors of "game," he acknowledges the similarity but suggests One Taste offers a more collaborative view of heterosexual relations. "Pick-up artists turn women into a formula: ‘say this line and she'll go to bed with you.' OM gives guys a compass for how to interact with women as equals."...  

As Daedone explains, OM doesn't just get women off –- it gives them the tools to ask for what they want in every area of life in every area of life. Women who've been raised to believe that men will run from women's rage discover that in OM, guys develop the skill, the resilience, and the maturity to show up and stay present. "It's made me much more attractive to women," says Blackman. He's not just talking about the digital skills that have made him senior stroker; he's talking about the emotional competence he's developed....

... Men can learn not to fear women's sexuality, not by asserting control over it but, as Blackman says, by "learning to dance with it." In the words of one of the year's biggest country hits, the solution to the man malaise may lie in giving guys what they really want: "Something to Do with My Hands." OM is far from the only solution to the current crisis, and for a lot of us, it may be one of the oddest. But for its growing number of devotees, it's surely the most pleasurable.

Read more here - http://jezebel.com/5927470/how-a-womans-orgasm-can-save-a-man

Couldn't we all use encouragement with communication, confidence, and connecting? It's not a perfect article. But I'll bet it made you smile. I sure am, thinking of the intensity I can feel your fingertips....

 I'm st(r)oked!