Showing posts with label touch. Show all posts
Showing posts with label touch. Show all posts

Friday, April 18, 2014

Resurrection. Soaring Through Touch

It's all about resurrections this week.  Of many sorts.  
 
Not only because this Sunday is a deeply profound holy day for some and a fun holiday for many;
but also because
'resurrection', meaning a rising again, as from disuse; a recovery, reawakening, and rebirth, can be applied so beautifully to us. 
As in, what makes us experience life in a vibrant and exciting way, what makes us feel alive?
 
I find myself thinking symbolically of those deeply profound experiences I've shared with a lover
of orgasmic 'rising again and reawakening'.


I find touch to be healing, especially in an intimate expression with a lover, a lover that is devoted to uplifting you to a new awareness.  Likewise, participating in my lover's resurrection, so to speak, is powerful for me.  It is their time to let go and melt into bliss under my luxurious and loving touch.  That said, it is not always easy to let go.

For my lover that enjoys surrendering fully to my control of their resurrection, things can get a bit kinky.  They will not be able to escape my focus, as we explore a variety of new sensations, pushing them closer and closer, edging toward ultimate release.

The goal in either of these touch styles is the journey seeking vibrancy in our entire being.
 

I find great inspiration from music during intimacy.  This is especially moving at this time of year - Leonard Bernstein conducting the final movement of
Gustav Mahler's "Resurrection Symphony".



A passionate piece to be sure, and orgasmic for those who have the ears to truly hear.


It gives me reflection of how lovers conduct all the movements of their 'Resurrection Symphony' together.



There with and for each other,
through soaring and finally when ready to come back down to earth.

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Pushing Buttons

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.

 

 Day 12 - A Magic Touch


I have been blessed to possess a body that is highly sensitive and multi-orgasmic.  I'm one huge erogenous zone!  I love to have my hot buttons pressed, but it takes a magic touch and finding someone who truly listens to my cues and watches my body for responses.  Of course, I know exactly how to press my own buttons.


Now, just because I said I love to have my hot buttons pressed does not mean to treat anything like a button.  I am much like most women I know, and cannot handle direct stimulation on my clitoris, much like the glans of a penis after orgasm, or even on my nipples.  

Here are the basics:
Genitals are not an elevator button that can just pushed repeatedly with hopes to get results. 
Nipples are not radio knobs.  
Mouths....well, think back to the first posting of this month long topic to 'The Art of Kissing' and re-consider what might be hot to do with a tongue from the get go.  

In fact, consider thinking of the whole body as being an erogenous zone and not just 'the pink parts.  There may be other zones that are begging to be spoiled, and by exploring you will find all those magic places.
Think circular movements and variations in pressure, direction, and motion, and the attention to cues and responses to be most successful.
And last, but not least, ask what feels good!  Experiment and have fun!

I love expanding 'my magic touch' abilities and find it particularly exciting to discover my lover's hot buttons.  It's a treat to encourage them to completely relax and melt under my full attention with a slow and soothing touch that elicits signs, moans, and gasps.

Wouldn't you love the magical touch of a feminine presence devoted to uplifting you to a new awareness?  Imagine developing your touch and intuitive skills to drive your lover wild.  And if you'd like we can practice together to find each other's hot buttons.

 

Friday, September 7, 2012

An Erotic Story

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Monday, October 18, 2010

A Subject Near And Dear To My Heart


Breasts,
they hold a fascination for many of us.
All shapes and sizes are beautiful in my humble opinion.

Makes you just want to reach out and.....I know, this is where you gentlemen must exercise great powers of restraint!

Then there are the responses, many and varied, to a touch. Whether it be in the form of pleasurable exploration from 'self',  familiar roaming fingers, or a sizzling stranger exploring.  
A gentle caress, a firmer squeeze, a light flicking of an erect nipple can send one right over the edge, depending on how well one's partner attunes to responses and has built up a sense of longing.

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Now for a more serious nature. 
This is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. 

I prefer to call it Breast Health Awareness in order to be pro-active, for early detection saves lives. 
Please consider making a plan with your female partner to educate yourselves on self-testing and mammograms. Next time you share a shower or are resting beside each other, lovingly offer an extra pair of hands. It's an incredible way to do something that needs to be done on a regular basis - trust me!

 

(As my dear friend and I positioned ourselves and were finally satisfied to snap the picture this morning, we were both moved beyond words with thoughts of the pain and agony those who do face this surely must endure. We could only imagine and held each other quietly and tenderly for some time afterward.)



On a personal level...I feel very grateful that I, my immediate family, and friends have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. I love being a woman, having a womanly shape, curves, hormones, and flows of nature, and certainly a healthy, active sexuality. I feel very grateful that there are those who find me desirable and teach me about intimacy, as I explore this unique adventure.