Crucifixion

oh yes?  You didn't think you could sneak past me, did you?

The Full Moon energy arrived before I even realized it,  

a wonderment, to be sure,

but made itself evident in ways all too personal too share.

Plus an introspective, deeply intense time...this Holy Week for many faith traditions.  I mean absolutely no disrespect to those traditions, but just intend to share a walk of a different sort into my Shibari Chamber.  An experience of deep, intense sensations.  A surrendering of the most powerful sort.  To be crucified brings healing of great magnitude.

Your Crucifixion

Let's go deeper and immerse yourself within the music of a didgeridoo 

as you become bound together.

I would love to hear your response regarding such an experience!

An Erotic Story - 50 Shades of Miss J.F.

I've always felt a connection between Bach's music and BDSM.  It comes as no surprise to me then that this particular piece was used in the soundtrack of the film - 50 Shades of Grey.

I happened to have enjoyed the movie very much, though I have strong opinions regarding the female lead.  Let me start at the beginning:

The plan was to enjoy a Valentine's Date with my date in the role of submissive 'Andrew Steele' and I, naturally, assumed the role of dominant 'Christine Grey'.  First we would attend a showing of the movie, followed by as 'Andrew' stated "live action with him tied up and helpless to resist whatever pleasures I choose to bestow."  You can imagine the wicked smile on my face that appeared with such a suggestion.

He shares his fantasy with more detail:

Who we are:  You , of course, are Christina Grey, twin sister of the billionaire magnate Christian, he of the unlimited resources and most peculiar appetites, needs, and yes in fact, insecurities.  I am Andres Steele, twin brother of Anastasia, and therefore your polar opposite (or perhaps actually soulmate) in terms of sexual sensibilities.

You see in my eyes what perhaps I do not even see myself, at least at the start.  You can see that I am by nature a submissive, willing to do what you want and allow myself to be subject to your whims.  But you also see what even I myself do not see - a fire in my eyes, a strange contradictory mix of conflicting desires.  I am not some spineless docile doormat who wishes to simply lie there while you indulge yourself.  I want to be restrained, yes; but I want to fight back.  I want to resist.  The perhaps slightly unhinged part is that I want to resist with all my strength and will, but be completely unable to do so.  As you come toward me to give pleasure or pain or teasing or biting or licking or pinching or (let your imagination run), my twisted erotic need is to resist with all my being, but helplessly, in a futile struggle to stop you.  Some may call that sick or twisted or at the very least strange - to me, even though perhaps I don't know it yet, it is transcendent.

Therefore, when I become enveloped in your magical Shibari ropes, it cannot be a semi-loose pretense of an effort to hold me down.  I must be locked down tight, arms and legs totally immobile.  No ability to roll away, to stand up, to evade you in any way.  Because I will try.  You see in my eyes that I can only reach my ultimate arousal if I do truly struggle against the situation, finding satisfaction in surrender only after I have exhausted every ounce of myself.  If I am only pretending to be restrained, the thrill is lost.  You see all this in me, and you delight in the challenge I present, that of a submissive, yes, but one with fire and intense will, who can only be satisfied by being truly taken.  This submissive will allow himself to be tied down, that sets up the erotic allure, but after that, he will fight you every step of the way.  You take satisfaction in that, and he does too, creating this bizarre yet magical experience for both of you.

How do you think our erotic adventure played out?

An erotic story

I have seen Joy multiple times, initially for Healing Touch, but more recently requested more, which we have treated as a very enhanced and mutual version of a touch session. Earlier in the year, Joy had offered a special birthday occasion to me.  She quickly confirmed details and began sending me teasing e-mail hints that it would most likely be more than what I might expect. And so it was, a great addition to my birthday...read below.

What a great way to spend a part of my birthday! 

I arrived at her place bearing a few gifts since she had also had a recent birthday. After a big welcome hug, a big welcome smile and sly comments about my being in for a special session, a miniature cake covered with candles appeared, the candles were lit, and I was told to hold the mini-cake and follow Joy to her piano, where she sat and played/sang happy birthday. I blew out the candles, and the piano being located near the foot of the stairs, we were quickly on our way to Joy's boudoir.

Prior occasions have been to head to the boudoir, to follow Joy's orders about stripping for her, and to then slip over to the bathroom for a shower. I knew something was going on when we turned right into the bathroom instead of left into the boudoir. I was asked to strip, and I assumed that I would then head into the shower. But a sharp word stopped me as I made a move toward the shower, and I was guided instead to the bathtub, which I had failed to notice was full of water and bubbles.

A bath ceremony was a birthday surprise. Water was soon sloshing around all over the place.  Suffice it to say that bubbles, warm water and the impish Joy made for a very winning combination.

I figured the bath ceremony would lead to a finale in the boudoir, but as we left the bathroom Joy opened a different door and we were in her Shibari room. I had read about Joy's interest in the erotic uses of ropes, but was not familiar with the actual seductive tying and teasing. On a previous visit, Joy had challenged me to try this, and now she didn't give me much choice (not that I resisted). I was shown some very erotic uses of rope on key body parts, but probably didn't undergo anything like what Joy will do to her more experienced subjects.

After all the surprises, we moved to the actual finale. As I have discovered, Joy is basically one big nerve ending, so sharing pleasure means all sorts of permutations are possible, even within the limits of mutual touch. My birthday session eventually achieved orbit, but not before lots of toe-curling pleasure was received and given, details of which will be bouncing round in my head for weeks. 

Explore Boundaries

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.

 

Day 8 - Talk About It

Pushing each others boundaries in bed can be exhilarating and rewarding, but you must learn to recognize when no means no.

There is a fabulous workshop being offered TONIGHT - Saturday, by The Center For Sex Positive Culture, an organization in Seattle - thecspc.org.  As proponents of sex positive culture, the Center believes that the appropriate uses of sex extend beyond reproduction. They include creating personal pleasure, bonding intimate relationships, promoting spiritual growth, and enhancing emotional and physical health. In a sex positive world, everyone has the freedom and resources to pursue a fulfilling and empowering sex life.  The workshop is called Exploring Boundaries - Good Fences, and I highly recommend it as an eye opener to stretching your boundaries and building up your communication skills to be more successful in your love-life. 

I enjoy creating opportunities in my Shibari Chamber where my playmates can explore their personal boundaries with rope bondage.  I also find it exciting to provide an experience that includes a variety of stimulating sensations....I call it a kinky massage.  Sensory deprivation and play, stimulating percussive body sensations, tie and tease are all uniquely designed (mild to wild) to recharge you from tip to toe.  Talking about boundaries, safe words, trust, and the like are always a prelude to any play such as this.  

It isn't everyone's cup of tea, but the only way to know that is to talk about it.  What new boundaries will you stretch and steamy discussions will you be having with your lover this month?

Come here, lover *wink*

An Erotic Story

A Great Evening with Miss J.F. and Miss Ava

 

Just had a great experience this past weekend with two amazing women: Miss J.F. and Mistress Ava. I had never met Miss Ava and from my short time with her I really got to like her a lot - both during our scene and later talking to her and hanging out a bit....extremely bright, easy to talk to and very attractive :-) . Miss J.F. was her extraordinary self.

By way of a short overview of the evening itself, they were both in all black when I got there and immediately set the stage for several rounds of forced exercise - one of my suggestions to Miss J.F. to build a scenario from (still sore from the push-ups!!!) followed by some bondage and flogging...loved every minute of it....

The evening continued with dinner and more wickedness and eventually it was time to say goodbye - first with Mistress Ava and much later with Miss J.F. With the former it was such a pleasure to meet and hope our paths can cross again. With the latter it is always wistful (if that's the right word) with the feeling that you know you'll be back but you never want it to end in the first place.

Introducing Miss Ava

Step into our world
Two wicked women
Provocative and persuasive
Tying, teasing, and torturing
Seeking your sweet surrender.   My good friend, Miss Ava, visits Seattle occasionally. She is a fiery-tressed vixen with an unusual penchant for naughty fellows who delight in the presence and discipline of a nubile kinkstress. I caught a snapshot of her, as I was conversing with a particularly chatty fella. She reminds me of a feline preparing to pounce.   And pounce she did.  That ball gag did the trick!

On another occasion I snapped a shot of her preparing to inject some lube into our 'patient', as we prepared him for a gender reassignment procedure.

I must say, she certainly enjoys CBT, if this shot gives any hint of what our willing victim is experiencing!

I'm hoping she may be a permanent fixture here in Seattle one day, but until then there are a few boys in town who are clamoring for her next visit.  Maybe you should find out why.....

An Erotic Story

Mrs. Robinson, you're trying to seduce me. Aren't you?

If you’ve met Joy you know that she spends every waking moment trying to make others happy.  She wants to hear what your innermost desires are, and she almost always puts your needs before hers.  In intimate settings this is an easy task for her because the woman is pure sensuality incarnate.  How else would you describe someone that approaches climax as quickly and as often as Joy does?

But this story really begins in early February.  Joy is a constant flirt and has played Anne Bancroft to my Dustin Hoffman since we first chatted several months ago.  Super Bowl weekend was no different.  While we talked something occurred to me.  I’d never heard any tales of someone going to visit her for the expressed purpose of attending to Joy’s desires.  She’d certainly attended to mine in the past.  I felt it was time to return the favor.

A few flirtatious notes of back and forth later, and we’d determined the need for this event to happen.  Due to some issues on my end with timing, I would have to wait a few weeks to make good on my vow.

When the day finally arrived I made my way to Joy’s and arrived right at the top of the hour.  A hug at the door was followed by some chit chat and the standard ritual of the mouthwash toast.  A funny moment occurred while toasting as we watched her little pup enthusiastically violate a toy stuffed animal. 

We sat on the love seat watching the canine spectacle and laughing over the whole thing.  I’m not sure where the rope came from but before I knew it she’d wrapped my *ahem* up and trailed the rest of the rope away in the form of a leash.  I was then led upstairs and ordered to shower quickly so that I could fulfill my promise.

I emerged from the shower donned the collar that was left for me and we made our way to the other room.  It’s at this point that I should mention that Joy is skilled in the art of Shibari.  And she certainly put this skill to good use.  She deftly crafted the rope into a vest/harness that wove from neck to cockles.  Then with both hands she grabbed hold of the harness and gave a few test tugs.  A smile indicated how pleased she was with her work.  A certain lower extremity, filled with a concentration of blood, indicated how pleased I was with it.

Joy then laid herself face down on the massage table and asked if I’d give her a massage.  I happily obliged, and began to work my hands firmly over her back.  Before I knew it she was moaning, then squirming, then...was that an orgasm?  Oh my!

I was informed that she wanted more so on went the latex shield and I clambered onto the table as instructed. The massage was set to continue but now from both outside and in. My hands kneaded her thighs and ass whilst my *ahem* attended to a more intimate region.  Recalling from a previous visit that Joy has a thing for feet I put my gangliness to good use. Her frame is petite and I was there to attend to her needs. So while continuing the attention she was getting internally, I shifted the focus of my hands to her feet. The effort was rewarded with another climax.

We relocated to the bed and spent the remainder of our time succumbing to our more animalistic natures. Positions varied as we writhed, our bodies entwined. There remains a lasting image of Joy astride me. Her hands gripping the Shibari-style harness in an attempt to gain leverage while grinding our torsos together.

There is really so much more about this dynamic lil' pixie that could be said. But none of it would truly do her justice. You'll simply have to find out first hand, and see for yourself. 

An Erotic Story

A Day of Pain/Pleasure Paradox - Duo with Victoria Rage and Joyfull

I have been seeing Victoria Rage for about a year now, exploring our mutal interests and learning many things during my expeditions with her. I view her at this point as a highly professional instructor/mentor with whom I have a great friendly working relationship, and I trust her implicitly. I have extensively communicated with her about my goals and desires, and she has been helping me work through them. She has at this point a *vast* knowledge of my various buttons and responses, and possesses a preternatural ability to make use of ideas I may have mentioned off-handedly to her months ago to amaze, delight and torment me :-)

Recently she introduced me to Miss J.F./Purely Joyful as a surprise during a session, because she thought we'd enjoy each other. I have since had a very intimate and intense all day/overnight experience with Joy, and the two of us have really hit it off. We have many very similar interests, and compliment each other wonderfully. Victoria Rage did well to bring us together :-)

During some discussions with Ms. Rage, she and Joy and I brewed up an idea for all-day roleplaying scene that turned out...well..... outrageously fabulous does not even begin to describe the results. I will go into a bit more detail than is usual for my writings here because this was so stunning and transformative. My pre-scene negotiations consisted mostly of letting each lady understand that I trusted their judgment and their ability to honor my boundaries within their areas of interest.  I play with Victoria Rage this way all the time now, and on the basis of my recent work with Joy, I also completely trust her to understand and honor my limits.  That is - all bets were off, within the context of our agreed scene.

I arrived at the lobby of VR's place at about noon, and met with Joy. Joy said hello to me, we giggled briefly with anticipation of the day to come, then we both got into our roles: Joy as my dear wife who had arranged for the two of us to meet with Dr. Rage, a renowned sexologist, to discuss some relationship troubles we'd been having, and I as the clueless husband somewhat hesitant to visit a therapist. Joy perfectly looked the part of the somewhat frustrated, somewhat lusty, somewhat shy wife, with more-than-a-bit of a secret.

We proceeded up to Dr. Rage's door together, knocked, and she greeted us warmly, and led us inside.  Ms. Rage looked absolutely professional, and lovely in a very hot doctor sort of way.

(An aside at this point - we were all together from noon until nearly The Witching Hour, and neither wonderful lady broke character the entire time, until we were relaxing afterwards. I tried to stay in character myself as best I could, but I am not nearly as good of an improv player as my companions, and they'd had a couple of weeks to plan together, while I myself was operating only on the barest outline, to maintain the suspense and anticipation. This made the whole day great fun, and extra challenging on my part. Well done, VR and Joy, well done!)

Into the Doctor's consulting room we went, and she began to lead us through a quite realistic couples' counselling session. (Victoria Rage would make a fine RL counselor IMHO...) After hearing our tales of woe, she looked thoughtful, and instructed me to go step into the washroom and freshen up, as I'd been travelling all day, while she needed to speak with Joy for a bit, to get her side of the story alone...

When I came out shortly thereafter, Dr. Rage requested that Joy and I move into another room of her expansive counseling facility. She told us that to help her further diagnose our problem, it would be necessary for her to witness the two of us... making love...so she could see how we interacted. Joy was quite shocked and shy about this, as was I. Dr. Rage sat on a chair at the door to the room, and told us to try to ignore her, and suggested that we begin by taking turns disrobing each other, then perhaps begin simply with some sensual massage. And so we began...

(This was a bit evil of Dr. Rage, as she knows both Joy and I practice various types of semi-esoteric energy work and massage in our Real Lives..., and I swear she was positively licking her lips as she made the suggestion...)

I started by massaging Joy, and encouraging her to relax and try to express herself, as she was so shy and tense about the situation. I rather suspected that the rest of the day might involve a different role for me, so I must confess I took great advantage of the moment, and positively tortured poor Joy simply with touch for...rather a long time....until she was begging for me to stop. At which point Dr. Rage instructed me to go down on Joy, with glee in her eyes. Joy protested, briefly, until she was unable to speak much anymore...

During the process, out of the corner of my eye I saw Dr. Rage swoop in like a predator to assist my efforts by stimulating my wife in other regions while I was busy elsewhere, which seemed to both shock Joy, and to send her further along her path.... I almost suspected the shock was real, as well as the craving in Dr. Rage's eyes.

Overhearing some of good Doctor's observations, I suspect that Joy and I may even have provided some instruction for the Doctor during this demonstation:-) (This was a lot of fun for me, Joy is an incredibly responsive and sensual individual, and warrants subtle care, and it is a *great* pleasure and privilege to interact with her.)

Then, it was Joy's turn to massage me, at the Doctor's suggestion. However, she was so worked up from how I had just tormented her that after a few minutes she told Dr. Rage: "No, I think I need to just....take him... now." And so she did, in a way most uncharacteristic of my previously shy, undemanding wife! It wasn't exactly the "making love" the Doctor had requested, I was simply...ravaged by a lust-crazed demoness :-) Darn.

When Joy was done slaking her immediate desires, the Doctor asked her to step out for a minute so the Doc could chat with me about my thoughts. During our discussion, the Doctor told me Joy had expressed a desire to be more....assertive...in our relationship, and asked if I was OK with exploring things in that direction. I allowed as to how that might be OK with me :-)

That settled, the Doctor had Joy come back in, but my demure partner had changed her clothing, and was now wearing some *very* intriguing lingerie.... And had a decidedly coy but hungry look in her eyes.

(Another aside, in pre-scene discussions, I had asked that Victoria use our scene to help teach Joy as much as she wanted about certain aspects of BDSM, and to feel free to use me as an instructional aid... I am so *very* glad I asked this, it informed the flavor of the whole day...)

With an eager smile, the Doctor handed Joy a nice long soft red rope, and asked her if perhaps she'd like to restrain me to get started. Joy is quite a skilled practictioner of Shibari, as it happens, and she had me trussed up in a nice and deviously functional harness, well suited for later modifications...

As I was being tied up, the Doctor happened to mention to my dear wife that she had just realized that she recognized me, and that I'd actually been coming to the Doctor's office for therapy of my own for about a year. Joy was shocked, shocked! And a bit angry as the Doctor and I provided some specifics about the ongoing therapy, including the fact that other people, of various genders, had been involved...

Doctor Rage then encouraged Joy to bring forth a confession of her own - she'd been cheating on me for some time as well, because she had...unmet needs in our relationship. And she had brought some physical evidence to throw in my face, as it were.

As Joy was revealing her infidelities, she also became angrier and angrier at mine...

The Doctor suggested that it was time for us to "clear the air" between us to start anew, and she and Joy bound me tightly to an exam table... I didn't especially protest.

And then began many hours of Joy being instructed in various practices and punishments by The Good Doctor Rage:

- Extensive CBT, including one period where I was trained to achieve hardness/softness on command, *or else*, so I could please my wife whenever and however she desired. Joy was positively giggling over this, and seemed approving of how the Doctor had conditioned me over the year.

- Some quite clever predicament bondage, which I must confess pushed me into a piggy sort of zone, in which I was often purposefully triggering the punishment/pain part of the bondage for the joy of it. Some of this was done using Doctor Rage's new dungeon furniture, which is *quite* versatile...

- Joy being taught the details of electrostimulation/torture, something I truly love.

 - Urethral sounds, a personal terror and challenge of mine.

 - Mummification in Saran wrap, then spanking, strapping, caning, and hot wax play over the wrap. (Genius by the way, such easy cleanup and no marks!). I was mortified I was acting so harlotish at times during this evolution. 

- Clothespins and clamps, oh my!

 - A wonderful lengthy period of face-sitting/smothering by Joy, while Doctor Rage was torturing other parts of me, while I was trying to cheat and force Joy to orgasm when nobody was looking, with some success.   This was especially intense for me, as I have a curiously keen sense of smell, and being so close to the heat and smell and taste of Joy's arousal, and yet so far, turned me into a quite primal beast.  This was a recurring issue for me throughout the whole day with the nectarious scents of both women, I'm not sure I've ever mentioned this to them before, or that I should do so now :-)

- Tease and denial, and more tease. One fun period of time where Doctor Rage made me cum over and over like a woman, using a Hitachi on me, allowing me only the orgasms but not the ejaculation. Laughing and climaxing at the same time, very confusing to me but so much fun.  Joy: 'Is he hurt?"  Victoria: "Not exactly......"

- And much much more.

- All the while, a wonderful dynamic dialog between us was taking place - Doctor Rage instructing Joy, Joy asking questions of us both, me responding to their questions, Joy telling me interesting things, the Doctor and Joy changing places to work out ideas,....

(Aside: now, when you are having this sort of fun with one skilled domme, there is often a bit of downtime so she can catch her breath or set the next scene. With two skilled, motivated, involved play partners working with you for this long, *there is no downtime*. I found this to be exquisitely intense, because I kept getting pushed higher and higher up the plateaus of sensation/consciousness. I have worked for years to separate orgasm from ejaculation, and many times throughout our day I was having nearly-continual non-ejaculatory orgasms, to the point where I was in a highly-altered state. This was absolutely superb. I also found it much easier to achieve this state with two people playing with me instead of just one, as I felt less conscious pressure to monitor my play partner's mood/safety/condition, something I have a habit of doing even from the bottom, as the two of them were constantly interacting each other - it made me able to relax my mind more.)

Joy seemed to be increasingly enjoying our activities, and becoming more assertive and skilled over the day. I noticed Doctor Rage was being quite wanton about pushing Joy along, and the Doctor seemed to be looking at my dear wife with a mixture of pride and...growing lust.

This was a very educational time for me, as often severe pain would be occurring at the same time as exquisite pleasure from the Doctor and Joy working together. This completely messes up my mind - I can process pain, and transform it into something pleasurable, and I can process pleasure, but both simultaneously crosswires me, and I am helpless. It relentlessly intensifies both feelings something fierce.

Well, as we reached early evening, the ladies decided it was time for dinner. We cleaned up, I was provided some interesting reminders of my situation to wear under my clothing, and off I drove us to a nice restaurant. We did not leave character, and Joy was making the most of her new assertiveness and desires, while Dr. Rage continued to offer advice and direction. It was quite thrilling to be in this public scene with these lovely ladies. Joy seemed to be having a fine time with it as well, at several times re-enacting the V-J-Day Sailor-kisses-nurse scene, in a way. I think Victoria was pretending not to know us at that moment, while I was almost afraid Joy was going to drag me into an alley and pillage me.  I think I might have liked that :-)

Over dinner, alas, I violated several of the behavioural rules with which I was tasked. They seemed set up so that I was doomed to failure, and Joy delighted in causing me to trip up.  Victoria was quietly keeping score, and I was promised severe punishment for each one.... Once informed of the nature of some of the punishment, I *may* have violated the rulesa few times more to earn extra strokes of the lash, since I seemed doomed anyways.   Joy also took some wicked pleasure in ordering some really hot food, so that her mouth would be good-and-spicy for later use...  And there was considerable discussion of what uses all the ginger on our plates could be put to, as well as the rather large supply the Doctor mentioned she had back at the office...

After dinner, I drove us back to the good Doctor's office for additional counseling. Which went on for hours. Both ladies were playing at the same time, often taking terrible advantage of my newfound pain/pleasure confusion to keep me continually overstimulated, flustered, and in a state of near-constant climax.

Many were our diversions of the rest of the evening, mostly recounted in images below,  as my mind was a bit hazy at this point:

 - Tightly shackled to a clever piece of dungeon furniture, and flogged, paddled, and whipped with the single-tail, to the point of climax several times. It is a skillful practitioner indeed who can bring you to this point with a whip, I could have stayed there all night, as Victoria had brought me with Joy's help into my very very happy spot. I was being downright slutty about it at this point, I will confess.

- Strapped and shackled to Dr. Rage's new spank/fuck bench, then spanked silly while being pleasurably tormented at the same time. Trying to sneak in some more climaxes for Joy when Victoria wasn't looking, but caught, and punished some more. Darn.

- Milked by prostate/anal/cock stimulation, while still strapped down to the delicious fuck bench. At this point I was pretty mindless in my gluttony, and quite vocal about it. One fine moment while Victoria was instructing Joy, with both of their hands in my ass, stands out through the haze of pleasure.

- The two of them deciding I was simply having too much fun, as Doctor Rage was pausing to put on a very aesthetic red leather strap-on harness. Doctor Rage suggested to my wife Joy that they take a short break, and that *she* really ought to see what it was like first, before it was used on me. Joy demurred. Doctor Rage insisted. Doctor Rage got her way, as is so often the case.

- Being forced to watch helplessly as The Good Doctor pounced on my surprised wife, and ruthlessly took her on the floor in front of me. Joy seemed to really get into this after a brief moment of astonishment over what was happening. The sensations pouring off the two preoccupied ladies were so intense that I had a climax simply from observing. Doctor Rage had been trying to seduce Joy all night, I think she finally just snapped and went for it :-)

- Having the hinted-at Eiffel Tower demonstrated for Joy and myself, with me still inescapably attached to the fuck bench, Doctor Rage behind me, Joy in front of me. Joy mercilessly taking my mouth, while Victoria had my rear. For a long time. The two of them high-fiving each other. Me screaming in ecstasy, over and over. My good wife Joy whispering in my ear about How Things Will Be From Now On, relating a plan for the future that deeply touched many of my innermost wicked fantasies. Joy milking me, while Victoria continued from behind.

- Being told I could ejaculate at long last, after 10ish hours of torment, almost blasting myself into orbit doing so when Joy gave me the command to cum. 

- Joy naughtily making me clean up the resultant mess off of her, sweetly offering it to me as a present to show my devotion and acceptance of our new arrangement...

Then for me, what must have been the single best part of the evening occurred, though it may seem odd to you. Victoria spread out some blankets on the floor, and we all lounged around, exhausted, trying to regain our senses, while we discussed the theory/practice of some of what we'd done, and other things we might want to try in the future. I felt completely at peace and relaxed, as I think the two of them did as well. It was a long moment of near-innocence, as if we were just kids who'd been playing vigorously for hours and lain down in a grassy field to rest and look at the sky.

We then cleaned up, and headed out, before our coaches turned into pumpkins. In truth, Victoria almost had to kick Joy and I out - I suspect we'd still be there if she hadn't, we were having so much fun together. I fear we completely wrecked Doctor Rage's poor dungeon though, the trail of destruction we left behind over the evening was quite impressive, though the Doctor was doing her best to keep things orderly along the way.  I wish I'd thought to take a picture of her kitchen sink, for instance :-)

This day/evening was simply one of the most fun play sessions I've ever had with anyone!   Everyone was skilled, and non-judgmental, and having a good time. The three of us exchanged energy nicely, everyone was very caring and considerate and wanton and wicked. We had a common roleplay scenario that we used to keep things moving along, and to drive past any uncomfortable spots.  It was equal parts performance-art, pure sensuality, and childish fun.

It was a bit interesting for me at times having a different safeword/signalling protocol for each participant and their simultaneous activities, so difficult to keep straight :-) I admit to a certain amount of foolish pride in hearing Joy say "OMG, he hasn't said XXX yet!" and hearing Victoria laughingly respond "don't worry ... he won't".

At times, these ladies managed to turn me into a completely greedy, happy, mindless slut, just basking in the experience and asking for more, more, more. Something I don't normally do except when I'm really trusting and comfortable.

I eventually reached a wonderful point partway throughout the day where I was severely empathic with both ladies, and essentially lost most sense of self, but could seemingly feel what everyone else was feeling all at once. This usually only happens when I am playing with someone I have known for decades, or during multi-day spiritual ceremonies that involve fasting/dehydration/purification/mortification, and it is telling to me of their skill and empathy that Victoria and Joy could accomplish this.

I learned quite a few important things during the day, which I won't bother you with as this account is already quite lengthy, but I deeply thank Victoria and Joy for helping me figure them out :-) You two rock!

Folks, if this sort of extended exploration is your path, I cannot recommend these two fine humans enough. While each lady individually is a treasure, together they present the possibilities of an experience on a completely higher level. If you take the time to develop a good working relationship with them ahead of time, and communicate clearly, and honor their desires as well, and build trust, even more so.

I'm already making plans for other insane fun we can all have together.

Miss J.F. now has her own website!

It was time, for I've been combining information for both Joyfull and Miss J.F. (pronounced Mischief).  Who is Miss J.F.?  It's ME, but represents my kinkier persona that you know is Wild About Rope! 

It tickles me to have one gentleman friend explain it this way -

Joyfull is basically a Goddess, totally beloved, well-reviewed, intuitive, smart, hot, sexy, sympathetic, a good listener, a great cook, and as handy as Gene Autry with a length of rope, if you're into that kind of thing (p.s. you'll be the calf).  Miss J.F. is Joyfull's kinkier persona.  If you're at all curious about Shibari, this is a rare chance to get tied up by a kind-hearted top who actually knows what she's doing.  Miss J.F. is the only one I'd trust to truss me. And even if you're as vanilla as the center of a Klondike bar, I'd still recommend her to any sapiosexual (look it up!). Oh, and did I mention she's total dynamite between the sheets? You should really give her a try.

So, you who are so deliciously French Vanilla, need not ever worry about rope or bondage or strap-ons ever finding way into our blissful encounters.

.......unless you ask for it.

Those folk who find kinky play to be a curious new adventure and wish to safely explore once to satisfy their curiosity, or for those who regularly crave a spicier experience in their play and enjoy shivering in anticipation of a mischievous vixen about to have their way with them....

 this is for you! 

 

Enjoy!  

All I Want For Christmas....

Wait, Santa!  Is it too late to give you my wish list???

Actually, I know Santa won't be visiting tonight for I have been topping his naughty list for years, but perhaps I have others who would like to be 'my Santa'.
Just saying that brings a certain flush over my body.  Santa.  A mature, charming fellow who always has a twinkle in his eye, a warm, welcoming manner, and invites me to sit on his lap.

At the request ...no, at the urging...alright, perhaps strong insistence of some of my sweethearts, I have created an Amazon wish-list, and I will also include a few other ideas for those who find indulging my secret desires a passion of theirs.  I'm painfully shy about this, but am striving to learn that it is a certain blessing to receive, as well as it is to give.

This is just what comes to mind when pondering such an idea.

My Amazon wish-list is listed under - Joy Full

Painting the town red,  even better when you are included!

Music Concerts, including most classical and jazz events:
Seattle Symphony
Jazz Alley
Tula's
Highway 99 Blues Club
Triple Door Theater
Chateau Ste. Michelle Winery Summer Concerts
Tacoma Symphony and Sinfonietta
Jazz Bones in Tacoma
Olympia Symphony
Bellingham Symphony
Cascade Symphony in Edmonds
Portland Symphony
Portland Blues Festival

Fine Dining all throughout the region

Personal Pampering

Here are a few ideas to support my efforts for health and wellness of mind/body/spirit:

A session with my favorite masseuse, acupuncturist, chiropractor, yoga instructor, mani/pedi, or a visit to this luxurious spa - http://www.olympusspa.net

Dainties, Fripperies, and other such Thrilling Adornments

Ring - 6 1/2
Toe Ring - 5 1/2
Gloves - Small
Top - Medium Petite
Skirt - 10 Petite
Dress - 10 Petite
Bra - 36C
Panty - Medium
Shoe - 6 1/2 or 7

Lustier Pursuits

 

NEW - A S*X Swing - hammock style

 

Gift Certificates or funds toward any of the following:

Babeland
Wild At Heart
Twisted Monk
Shibaricon
Bali Bliss Retreat

I believe that is more than enough!  And I would like to give my thanks in advance for all those caring, dear-hearted, generous persons who find such joy in making me feel so special!  

 

An Erotic Story

What Ye Been Waitin' Fer?

It was almost International Talk Like a Pirate Day and I realized I had to visit Joyfull. It is fast becoming a yearly ritual.

Joy greeted me in her saucy wench outfit with mesh stockings. We exchanged a few ARRRs, Avasts and laughs. Joyfull, ever the consummate hostess, had some tasty snacks and drinks waiting for me. We chatted a bit about the hobby, and our lives. It was then I noticed that naughty smile, and the fun began. Joyfull has been studying the Asian art of Shibari and was looking for a "lab partner". Next thing I know I am wrapped up by Joyfull and receiving some of the best French I have had.

A while later and one spill we retired to her play room. We engaged in some lovely positions and savored mutual French. All of this was punctuated with laughter, chat, and lots of teasing by Joyfull. Alas life was calling, so we finished my micro vacation with a shower (with two shower heads) and several hugs.

Joyfull is such a delight. While you visit her you never quite know what to expect, but you will always leave with a smile. She uses her creativity to make every visit different and special. I wonder what other holiday we could celebrate?

Arrr! So ya scurvy dogs. What ye being waiting for?

An Erotic Story

An Overnight Adventure!

This started with a social visit I had with Joy while she was here in Portland early August after seeing her ad here.  I will say that there was some very good chemistry during the inital visit and I got a taste of the shibari craft that Joy/Miss J.F. practices.  I suspect we reached the bounds of what could be done in a public place that by the end begged for a longer visit.

We emailed over the course of a couple weeks, discussing options and possible times to come up to see her in Seattle.  Somewhere along the way the idea of an overnight visit came up and when the offer came I jumped at the chance.  I am new to the BDSM and so I had difficulty voicing what it was I wanted to do.  I knew rope should be part of it but I also wanted to get my hands on the woman I saw in Portland.  We eventually settled on a date for the overnight.

Joy fashioned an evening to remember. I arrived in Seattle around dinner time and we made a quick decision to get some seriously good fast Mexican. We seemed to have not lost much of the chemistry from the first visit and Joy is so charming that it was easy to settle in. We made a stop at Babeland. From there we headed back to Joy's where the magic was to begin in earnest.

At her place we went through the ritualistic mouthwash and toast. I took a shower and when I was done Miss J.F. was there wearing a black feathery coat over black lace with stockings and crazy high heels. I was blown away, speechless actually, and in no time my hands were tied behind my head. A very sensuous foot-bath was followed by her touching me and more rope; this time around my cock and used like a leash to lead me away to the shibari room.

Still as my first time with a dominatrix I had no idea what was in store but at the same time I felt completely safe in J.F.'s extremely confident and talented hands. Ever more rope was wound around my body and I was tied to the bed. Some of what followed is a dreamy blur (possibly owing to being blind-folded part of the time) while other images are seared into my brain. There was just enough back light to see her silhouette dishing out the perfect mixture of pleasure and pain.

With hours left in the evening Joy suggested a bubble bath and ice cream. It seemed the perfect, soothing post-bondage ritual. We had some really great conversation followed by some serious arousal. We moved to the bed and more fun quickly ensued. To say Joy has stamina or enthusiasm is to not give her enough credit and I tried my best to match her late into the night.

The next morning Joy brought coffee and crescents to bed. Once re-energized though, the focus quickly turned from food to, well... Afterwards we chatted and said goodbye over a delicious breakfast and Bach playing in the background. Clearly I had an extraordinary time with a truly exceptional woman. I would say if you come prepared the places Joy/Miss J.F. can take you are practically limitless.

An Erotic Story

Experimentation with a Sexy Vixen

 

I had previously seen Joy for a shibari training session (she was quite good by that time!), and had learned that she was dipping her toes in a different pool with a sensual domme alter-ego known as Miss J.F. As I learned after I arrived, this is actually meant as a play on the word "mischief".

We made the session arrangements via a couple PM's back and forth on Twitter after she mentioned that she was interested in playing that day in a rather playful way.  Joy and I communicate via Twitter a lot so she knows that I'm submissive and a few of my fetishes, which she finds intriguing. Her sensual domme persona is something she's still growing into, so there's a fair amount of experimentation in session, which I'm only too happy to help with

Don't expect any pain, humiliation, or things that don't feel good, as that's not her style at all. She doesn't really want to go there. However, there's plenty still left to explore as a sexy vixen in control, especially with her now extensive shibari skills, and her creativity with various household items that transform into toys, such as the item I swore was a wartenburg wheel Miss J.F. is very concerned during session that you're feeling what you want to feel, and having a good time!

It felt REALLY good to let Miss J.F. do her thing and have her way with me... from a strap-on to some foot and butt kissing, my "bits" being manipulated and tied in some interesting configurations, and some light nipple clamp play.

I'm really looking forward to seeing Miss J.F. evolve further, as well as seeing "sweetheart" Joy as well! Thank you for a wonderful experience!!

An Erotic Story

Warm, Wet, and Wonderful

I have seen Joy twice before, but this time we tried a couple new things. One was a vibrating ---- ring, which definitely added to the sensations. The other was allowing Joy to apply half of her shibari ropes to me. My hands were tied, but not my feet. But we started with some cuddling in the bathtub, where Joy fed me some strawberries; very nice. Then we moved to the bed, where Joy applied the ropes, as I lay spread-eagled while she began wonderful, warm, wet, slow, soft, deep kisses. 

An Erotic Story

Doctor J. Full administers physical exam required for employment as Santa's Elf

I saw Joyfull just before Christmas, hoping to do a duo with her and Miss J.F.....alas, I was told it was was not to be, as Miss J.F. (Mischief) was not available at that time.
After the traditional toast, Joyfull excused herself and went upstairs. She then summoned me upstairs, and introduced me to “DR. J. Full”
Dr. Full told me that I been selected to be one of Santa's elves, but that I was going to need a complete physical examination first!!
She asked me to take a shower, and then proceeded to give me a physical, the likes I have never experienced before!!
Dr. Full went over me with a fine tooth comb, making sure that EVERYTHING was working as it was supposed to.
She inspected every part of me, tested that all my reflexes worked…….especially the so called “involuntary” ones…….she paid very special attention to those, and very definitely got the reactions that she expected and demanded more of the same!
Then, the “Dr” got very unprofessional……….she whipped out some ropes, and tied me to the bed…..shades of Miss J.F.!!....and proceeded to have her way with me….all the time telling me that I HAD to pass my physical in order to become one of Santa’s elves!!
I’m not sure, but somewhere in there it became a trio……Miss J.F. showed up for a brief time (did I mention the ropes), and then Joyfull and the Dr both got involved in my examination in a very physical way which ended up leaving me totally drained!!
As usual, Joy was her cheerful bubbly self, full of good cheer and mischief, never letting on to what she had planned for me this time around! She has never been a dissapointment, always a ray of bright sunshine!! I count her as a true friend!!
Being a professional driver, and needing recertification every year, I KNOW about physicals....or at least I thought I did until Dr. J.Full got a hold of me!!!! I will never look at a DOT physical in quite the same way again!

Now, If only I could talk my real Dr into giving me a physical like that!! She's cute too...and in her 30's (the younger woman!!)

Introducing Miss J.F. ....and a bit of mischief!

What better time to make an introduction 

than on a night dark with mischief-making?

Miss J.F. aka Joyfull

   

Mischief-maker in her new Shibari-inspired room

My friends know I've had a bit of mischief tucked up my  sleeve,

as I've been creating a special room in my love-nest,

devoted to my Shibari-inspired rope art and a suitable space

for the slightly kinky mischief I've been enjoying with so many of you.

You will see

with this introduction of Miss J.F. and her specific charms, namely

the continuation of Shibari Sessions, and the additions of

rope bondage combined with healing touch table time, 

as well as fetish explorations.

Rest assured for those of my friends who prefer the attention of their sweetheart, Joyfull,

and find this type of mischief-making alarming,

for Miss J.F.'s devilish ways are only available by request. 

Miss J.F. is the one to request when you wish 

to try her ropes on for size.

Miss J.F. is the one to request when you seek a gentle, 

but firm new type of touch.

Miss J.F. is the one to request when you've made the decision to 

have no choice, but to surrender to new sensations.

All is now ready. Trick or Treat!  

  

Hooray! Hooray!

Hooray, hooray for the 8th of May, 

It's Outdoor Intercourse Day!

Ah, warm weather!  What better way to celebrate sun-drenched days and balmy evenings than to open up your senses to a whole new sexy array of stimulating sounds and scents.

If you've always wondered how it feels to 'dare to go bare',  

here are some options for becoming a member of 

Joyfull's Outdoor Adventure Club

* For the novice - Never shared an intimate moment with someone special in the great outdoors? Perhaps a short romp through the garden and discover the sensation of the sun on your bare skin, a breeze touching the fine hairs on your back, lounging comfortably entwined in the most pleasurable of ways, whilst gazing up at the sky. Perhaps bringing foreplay to its peak only to escape to the comfort and privacy of a soft bed indoors for further exploration.

* For the adventurous - a suitable location out-of-doors for titillation, adoration, and complete restoration.  You may even feel bold enough to include a wet slip-and-slide, some table time for healing touch, or a bit of shibari bondage for the true tree-lover.  

For especially hot days - popsicles included!

* For the seasoned outdoorsman and possible exhibitionist who likes to live on the edge - A nearby park, waterfall, and pathways for the logger and his wood nymph to frolic in the forest, with option to return to the secret garden for complete ravishment of the captured woodsman.

* Or any variation of the above to suit your specific interests. 

Mild to Wild!

The Nymph's favorite waterfall.
Aren't you wondering what she has hidden in her basket?

Join me in my Secret Garden,
  I can't wait to encourage the erotic 

naturist in you to emerge...

Let's Go!

Japanese-Inspired Bondage

I continue to receive inquiries regarding Shibari Practice Sessions.  Why does this excite me?

I find that many men who visit me crave the opportunity to let go, to release control to a trusted woman who will wrap them up with intricate knots, use them, toy with them, and claim them for their own pleasure.  They love the whole 'Tease And Denial' thing.  And Shibari or Japanese-Inspired Bondage can be that, but it is most assuredly different than experiences with leather and being cuffed.

As any smart student I have experienced rope bondage myself, so that I can better understand the mind space one enters when being bound.  And I continue to learn through many resources, from hands on practicums and written syllabuses with experts from around the world, to the internet and books, to the best learning opportunities possible - practicing on you and learning from your feedback and experience.
 
Turning you into an erotic work of art is just the first part of my pleasure.  There is a lovely intimacy shared between the one doing the binding and the one being bound.  It is rather difficult to explain.  Again, it is through experience that one can gain a greater understanding.  I am honored to have had many gentlemen eager to sample this experience.

Just check out this sexy, young man for example:

All I can say is yummy!  He is a wonderful, willing, not to mention SEXY practice volunteer!

I love the opportunity to be the Sensual Domme, 

to express my kinkiness in this way.

Here is another example of an older gentleman, who possesses an incredible stamina in a most twisted fashion.  The front side of this example is too hot to handle.  Well, it wasn't for me, at the time!

The second part of my pleasure comes from your response as my erotic playtoy!

One friend who frequents Shibari Practice Sessions requested a blindfold.  He says, "The blindfold added a whole new dimension. You have no idea of the pattern she is creating, the textures you will feel or how you respond to them. I could go into great detail, but things I felt may not feel the same to you."

Another comment from an established friend of mine who requests Shibari as a component of his Courtesan Encounter shares how he loved how "she would touch, tease, fondle, pinch, tickle, lick, lick, kiss, nibble and ride me to her hearts content."

I hope to entice more willing participants into my web of mischief.  Both gentlemen and ladies. 

You will surely find such a surrender 'spell-binding.'

I use feet

oh yes, I do.  Mine, yours, ours. 

Here is a stimulating adventure showing how much 

I enjoy using my feet.

 

However, what the picture does not show is how my playmate is bound Shibari-style to the pillar behind him.  After all I would not want him to fall shouldst he lose his level-headed thinking in a haze of bliss.

I do enjoy feet.  And those who visit me know first hand the pleasures to be found at my finger tips, tippy toes, or other sensuous stimuli applied to their feet.

For now I will give my own feet a break in this soft, luxurious fur, as I recover from a very harried week as Nurse. 

But that is a whole 'nother subject...

My New Passion - Shibari - Erotic Rope Art

When I'm not indulging you with chocolate-dipped nipples, steamy showers, inviting playscapes, and more.....I might be in a new, strangely exciting  "Sensual Domme" space ready to transform your body into a work of art and you into my erotic playtoy.



 

 

Shibari is an ancient Japanese practice of rope bondage which evolved into an erotic art form.  From www.completeshibari.com - "Tying a subject to not only immobilize them, but to do so elegantly and beautifully - creating an intimate and erotic experience for both the subject and the person tying."

It is also said that the erotic ties are designed to stimulate the meridians and bring about healing and release.   As an advocate of health and wellness I find this aspect of Shibari equally fascinating!  

Imagine me dressed provocatively and standing before a willing participant, as I undress *him, caress him, place ropes encircling him and binding him as mine, placing knots and overlaps in strategically placed locations.  Perhaps he will need to kneel or recline as I continue to weave my ropes.  He may become visibly entranced, to the extent I may tease and torment until he bursts from his blissful haze.

          Oh yes, I would desire for it to be an explosively happy time!

*I should also insert that females have largely been the focus of Shibari art.  I am encouraging equal opportunity for males in my practice.  But ladies, I welcome you as well.  Male or female, this artistic, erotic space will be a stimulating experience for all.

And so I seek willing and curious people to explore with me as I develop my skills and knowledge through Shibari Practice Sessions.  

For you - 

An introduction to a spellbound experience!