It's my favorite time of year, when the warmer weather beckons me into The Secret Garden, daydreaming of an admirer holding me close under the cherry tree to murmur words against the softness of my neck, making me breathless with desire.
My intimate friends are few, for I am quite selective in choosing only those I feel would truly appreciate and adore me, as is my way with those special people in my life. Chemistry and charm are key,but even a thoughtfully written introduction may not shed enough light from a hopeful new friend. Often the only way I can ascertain if I wish to fully reveal my sensual gifts with a lover is to start with an evening of wine and dining. I believe this will be the secret key to future inquiries for those longing for my companionship.
I love the flow of this song, much like the flow of conversation with a charming new friend. And with that flow comes revealing parts of yourself, as you open up with trust and tenderness. To those who find such surprise and sweetness with me, an invitation awaits to enter my Secret Garden. We will take the path to where the sun and breezes touch our secret spots, dip our toes into bubbling fountain of the pond, and the laughter of our discovery together mingles with the lilt of the bird-songs wafting down from the surrounding wood.
I have been planning to see Joy upon my return to Seattle following a most wonderful summer of discovery.
I had to cancel a mid-fall trip, but was able to finally set a time to come back this month. I have had the pleasure of staying in touch with Joy since our wonderful initial encounter and requested an extended visit, that included social time out on the town, as well as private time to be absorbed in intimate discovery and enjoyment.
While working with words is part of my vocation, I find myself a bit at a loss to adequately capture what spending the better part of a day with Joy is like. We never lacked for words, for topics to explore, from music, to food, to passion.
There are times when I am envious of her admirers in Seattle, as they live near and can avail themselves of Joy's company frequently. I live distant, and can only get here infrequently. We spent an amazingly engaging social outing. She accompanied me to a shop I wanted to visit, we strolled through Pikes Place Market, picked out a nice bottle of wine for later in the day. That is one of the particular charms of Joy. She is engaging in any setting, she makes me feel like the center of all that is interesting.
At the end of our outing, we found a quaint French Bistro. Joy and I enjoyed exploring new foods, and wine, over a meal in a romantic setting. Honestly, the day could have ended there, and I would have still left with a smile, as she helped me discover the pleasures of the simple company of a woman that life’s circumstances no longer permit. But, I should add, nothing about time with Joy is simple … she is constantly, consistently, engaging. I do not recall when I last smiled this much!
At the close of our time out on the town, we retired to a private setting and Joy soon reminded me of all of the other reasons I wanted to see her again. She knows my desires better than I do, she anticipates, she knows what I need. She is very sensual, skillfull, sexual, and oh so responsive. Simply suffice it for me to say that hours can (and were) occupied with the pleasures of mutual discovery. The details do not matter, trust me to know that time with her brought me more pleasures than I imagined possible.
Joy is a wholistic, engaging, woman, and she knows how to remind me, to make me feel, that I am all man.
Somehow she snapped a photo of the nifty robes available at our luxurious accommodations when I wasn't looking...which I always was!
A gentleman admirer recently asked how he could pamper me. My first thoughts were just the fact that he was thinking of me and sharing his time with me meant the world to me. But he gently suggested he would like to do something more, something special...and encouraged me to think of ways he could make my life a gentler, more beautiful place.
How amazing is that? So, with that in mind...
Twenty-five Days til Christmas
or
Twenty-five Ways to please your Lover (me!)
1. Dark Chocolate and Red Wine - if you don't already know the healthful benefits of dark chocolate and red wine, as well, you should take a second look. And since this gentleman admirer already knew of my love for chocolate, he had a box sent to me of the most artistic, delicious chocolates I've ever had.
Here's proof ~
Before I devoured one of them, I had to take a thank you picture for him.
2. Yoga - my yoga practice is an important part of my well-being. Whether a single class, a month or year pass, or even attending a class with me, this gift would touch me/us in a very special way. I'm also eager to explore a fitness class, dance lessons, swimming, or racquet ball with a fine friend. Might that interest you as well?
3. Are you a 'sound' nerd like I am? At your last visit did you notice how my speakers have been aging or how I had to lug my computer around so we could enjoy the music I chose for us. How I'd love someone to figure out a whole house system. Or maybe even some of those Bose headphones that would be particularly exciting for one of those visits where we play with sensory overload or deprivation!
4. What woman doesn't enjoy a trip to the hair salon? I am no longer coloring my hair and love the dark ask blonde sprinkled with my life's experiences. I know you love my perky hairstyle, and will appreciate that perfect stylist who knows just how to make my natural hair look great.
5. Give the Gift of Music. My closest friends know that I support the fine arts. There are those who are without the means to attend concerts or take music lessons. I like being an advocate for those people and making it possible for them to enjoy all the benefits of music. If this interests you, let's chat!
6. Give the Gift of Warmth. I support several charitable organizations that give travel-size toiletries, socks, gloves, hats, and coats to those in need, especially with the temperatures hitting the teens. I would love to connect with you, if you have items to donate.
8. The weather is probably biting and cold and the thought of sinking into a hot tub and enjoying a massage at The Little Red Day Spa would be simply amazing. They even have rather enticing packages available for couples.... :)
9. In thinking about enticing packages for couples, I enjoy offering Couples Bliss sessions along with one of my good friends, also skilled in touch. Two tables side by side while you and someone special receive an indulgent touch from two Goddesses of Touch. To make this possible, I would like to add a new massage table to my collection, preferably one that will be a bit roomier. I like supporting local businesses and have found that Zenith Supplies has all I need for my Healing Touch interests.
10. The 10th Day of December is Wednesday - Hump Day. Here's a fun place to enjoy the day in a sexy way. I like supporting the Center for Sex-Positive Culture and a renewal of my membership would be a great gift, plus I could hold your hand (or more) if you wanted to check it out too.
11. I know how you fellows love to keep your cars buffed and shining. I simply don't have the patience! I would rather buff and shine you. :) So, if a car wash and detailing is your thing, my nice new car and I would be ever so grateful.
13. Let's attend a Seattle Symphony Concert together, or perhaps you'd like to gift a season subscription, or a single concert. Yo Yo Ma will be playing in Seattle on May 3rd?! What a dream it would be for me to hear him in person. A cello is one of the few instruments missing from my music room. Maybe if I had one, I could be as good as Yo Yo.
14. Did you know I love to cook? A good chef's knife would make prep work a breeze. I'm told that this one fits in a smaller hand more easily, but then I discovered this one with an artsy look. Choices!
15. More kitchen cravings - I cannot help but drool when I see these, and I have been lusting after one since I was a teen. True story!
16. With continued thoughts of health and wellness an acupuncture appointment always makes a difference in my well-being. Perhaps the idea frightens you. If *I* can handle the needles, then surely you can. If you'd like to explore this idea, we could enjoy a Happy Hour appointment together!
17. One of my keen interests is in giving kinky massages. Though I have my own style and expertise, I have always wanted to take the Bondassage Training and Elysium Training by Jaeleen Bennis and have felt that this is an unattainable goal. You might be in store for a life-time of kinky massages should you make this dream come true.
19. It's the last Friday before Christmas. I'd rather be enjoying a bit of jazz than shopping. This is THE place to go and a lot of fun to experience with someone special. You just won't be able to stop smiling if we go together. Or if a private jazz concert is to your liking, a gift certificate for sheet music at a local music store would inspire me to learn your favorite piece.
20. I do not often indulge, for my feet are so ticklish, but I love have my feet pampered and always wear toe rings and pretty polish. Toe rings are always adjustable, so the size won't matter, and this is my favorite spot for a pedi/mani.
21. The Longest Night of the Year is this day. Wouldn't it be nice to share it with the twinkling of many lights, perhaps escaping to Leavenworth for the final night of the tree lighting? I have never experienced Leavenworth, but you and I could! Candles could be a good substitute for this evening and a promise of a getaway trip planned for the future.
22. Sometimes I feel like a real dinosaur when it comes to techie types of things. The one gadget I use every day, all day (it seems), and is my number one necessity is my computer. Mine is rather old and so low on memory that it is limited in its functionality. Replacing it would be a godsend!
23. Sometimes it's just gifts of little acts of service that can bring a grateful smile to someone's face. Raking leaves, mowing the lawn, trimming the trees, or a multitude of other 'handy man' types of things are so appreciated.
24. I've been neglectful of all those dainty, feminine things that I love to wear...lingerie, bracelets, scarves, dresses, shoes, fine stockings, earrings, silky things, velvety things, leather, cashmere. All those sensuous things that make you want to touch, or exclaim "how beautiful".
25. Donate a Christmas Tree and Holiday Dinner to someone without, or if you wish for me to be a recipient, I prefer plants that are potted from this garden store and a lovely meal at Lark!
I’m
smiling up at him, lost in the ecstasy of the moment, where we’ve
arrived after a winding journey of talk, wine, dinner, coffee, more
talk, but the sharing kind, the kind that leads to smiling, leaning in,
hovering, kissing, and well, where we are right now.
My hand rests on his broad chest, fingers lightly winding through his curly hair. Even from the first moments of slowly peeling away the layers of his clothing, I felt his body quiver and I watched him in fascination, as moans escaped his mouth. He was a thirsty man, lost to all the world, soaking in the sensations of my tender touch. Trust led to unleashed passion and revealed a depth and power that surely surprised us both. Even now, after floating on wave upon wave of orgasmic bliss and able to muster a secret smile, I marvel that his masculine essence is like none I've never known.
~~~
He says
I see her beautiful face, so bright and engaging during
drinks and dinner. Now she’s serious, maybe not even aware of where she
is, traveling from one orgasm to another, pinned underneath me, pushed down into the bed. Her hands have lost their grip on my shoulders, her legs have slipped away from my thighs, leaving her entire body open, writhing, gushing, defenseless.
She’s quickly losing strength, but I can’t stop myself, and she rises to yet one more occasion to celebrate her uniquely sexual center. She’s looking right into my eyes, widely staring at me, mouth open in awe at the moment, almost unconscious, but not fearful. She’s learned over the years how to get to this point and she loves how quickly and often she can go there. And I've learned over longer years how to be attentive, patient, and true to my Southern roots practice "ladies first." But in this encounter, this moment, it's different for me and I think for her as well. I’m not in control, but also not under her
control. There is no control, just a changing of leads as we dance
into each other more and more deeply. Smiles will come with memories,
but this moment is so intense, there is no room or strength left for smiles, just
feelings and fluids. I’ll remember this moment for the rest of my life.
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 9 - A Complimentary Union
You always know when you meet someone who has that special connection with you. Things flow naturally, and often times surprise you with explosive chemistry. Opposites attract, right? Do you think that is what makes a complimentary union? Or perhaps a mix of 'opposites' with 'like minds'? Unusual unions, so to speak.
Tonight there is an interesting opportunity for you and your lover to dabble in some unusual unions for
"A Bit of Foreply Before The Big Day"
with the Pike Brewing Company's Annual Pike Cocofest!
(from pikebrewing.com/newsletters)
The Pike Brewing Company is celebrating our Sixth Annual
Pike Chocofest on Sunday, February 9, 2014, from 6:00pm to 9:00pm. We
hope you will join us! All proceeds benefit Puget Soundkeeper, a local
non-profit dedicated to keeping Puget Sound clean!
Pike Chocofest began in 2009 as a romantic experience, to expose the
sensual relationship between chocolate and beer, as Seattle is a
love-nest for both. Wine, spirits, cider and mead also pair deliciously
with chocolate, though perhaps they are not as orgasmic a combination as
with beer.
“Au contraire” you say! Pleasurably answer that question at Pike
Chocofest 2014 where a wide variety of potables will be paired with
chocolate and savory comestibles… a tasting from, as they say, “soup to
nuts” and “sweet to savory.” In 2013, over 500 people attended and
experienced food and drink from over 70 vendors; an orgy for food and
drink lovers!
Pike Chocofest is a pleasure for vendors and guests alike; a
Valentine’s gift for everyone involved, including Puget Soundkeeper for
helping to keep local waters pristine for another love potion featured
at Pike Chocofest, oysters on the half shell.
Sounds like a blast and I hope to attend. But back to pairings... I have several playmates I enjoy mixing with a third, so that the pairing turns into a trio with all the delightful activities that ensue with such a concoction. I've often mentioned Joanne, Miss Ava, and Victoria Rage, for we've had many an opportunity to titillate our playmates, and I know each will complement a specific interest for an inquiring playmate. Plus there are a host of other women with whom I would happily make devious plans. I should also make mention that I have a stunning array of studly fellows (all sizes, shapes, and ages) available for an assortment of explorations as well. It has been a joy (no pun intended) to be the Sensual Alchemist for such play.
What are some interesting pairings to contemplate for a bit of fun with your lover? Be a sensual alchemist!
Mix:
something you want and something you need
lace and leather
wine and chocolate
shy and insatiable
Bach and Apocalyptica
sweet and sassy
Saints and sinners
Saints moaning, "Oh God" and Sinners panting, "That's HOT!"
Actually the only difference between a saint and a sinner is that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.
So, let me make you an invitation ~
I'd love to be a part of your future,
but just remember to
ABANDON ALL DECORUM (your past).
I am not a wine snob, for I find beautiful, artsy labels and poetic verse draw me more than my connoisseur French lover fully appreciates. Nevertheless, he is patient and offers me learning opportunities to hone my skills and taste fine wine....along with fine French cuisine on a fairly regular basis.
My most recent discovery is a Pinot Noir that had the most enchanting visual of a Goddess of the Earth admiring a bouquet of flowers. Even more beguiling to me is the verse:
She dwelled on the beauty of life.
Watching the stars, she saw herself running with them.
He is most likely rolling his eyes with a big grin on his face, and muttering "no, No, noo", as only Frenchmen can do. But he adores me and finds me charming for my girlish ways and tender heart. And he knows I'll put on that impossibly low-cut cocktail dress and the silk stockings with the seam up the back. And he'll remember the last time we danced together. And the last time we kissed deeply.
Mother Nature throwing the keep into the darkness this eve and now the
flickering candle lit room, I reminisce of my most recent experience
with the incomparable Joyfull. Having known her from almost her start
and carousing in the South Sound, I love to tell of the lore which
always favours this exquisite lady. I recently ran into the joyfull one
at a gathering of friends, but I had arrived late as everyone was
leaving. When departing, got a text titillation back and forth from her
and made an appointment on the fly. I have promised (crossing my heart)
to come to her Seattle establishment for the very longest. I had the
time and was in striking distance. YES! As usual, got fairly lost en
route, but did stop off for a house warming gift. Then off to the abode
with the most dizzying directions imaginable. I finally found a parking
space with the nymphet up in the window waving madly at me. Grabbed a
bottle of chocolate wine and the gift bauble.
Joyfull is a
timeless and special person. Memories fill my mind of our play
adventures over the years as I approach the villa up this curvy walk.
Played
a tune at the door on her announcement device (don't ask). Ushered
into the abyss and we toured the place. So VERY quaint and like Joyfull,
eclectic. Flutes and cork screw ...Voila, a glass each clinking a
toast and then over to meet Lil Beastie and the partridge in the pear
tree that I was privileged to add my contribution. I love the room we
call down South the 'sun pawlar', that faces out to her winter garden.
The wintry day prevents a spin through the famous Secret Garden.
With
the tour, we head up the winding steps to the small boudoir and bath.
Then a little more wine and a little less clothes as we re imagined and
refreshed ourselves with one another. No specifics this time but
afterwards we did get in the shower as we are smallish hobbit like
creatures where we rubba dub dubbed with loads of luxurious soaps.
Soon
all tidily dressed and an exit tune. I part her joyfullness forth wit
only to be in a mesmerized state driving up I5 the wrong direction at
rush hour and a nickle tour of the International district to boot! But
was it ever worth it! ...
