Showing posts with label receiving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label receiving. Show all posts

Monday, October 6, 2014

An Erotic Story - Seducing the Seductress


I'd seen Joy writing about making symphonic melodies with her gentleman friend. Or perhaps becoming a teacher's pet. What really seduced my mind and senses was right here on her most recent blog postings.
And as I reached out and made contact with Miss Joyfull, well, it was on. It was a cool, slow rain evening when I did so. Very much like the night of our first encounter in which she helped me celebrate my birthday.
And with one message the flirting began. When could we make a meeting happen. Quite the mind stimulation going back and forth while she was out to dinner with friends and I was at dinner by my lonesome. But it was all too sudden. And the energy we were building would have to wait. And I was then commanded by Miss J.F. to not release myself. She wanted that all to herself.
And it was all that I could do from releasing myself. The photos and stories from her blog had my mind (and loins) yearning. But I did not do so for fear of incurring the wrath of Miss J.F. who I had yet to fully encounter.
The evening came/went as well as the next day. We decided it best that I come visit her in her love lair b/c I had a late day working and business dinner with colleagues. And it was with much haste that I made my way instinctually to her abode.
And it was when I crossed her threshold that the sparks/energy flew. She noted that I had a beard and I might scratch her delicate skin. But I told her not to worry as I kissed her on her shoulders and the nape of her neck. I told her I very much approved of the satin/stockings she was wearing.
We skipped her typical foot ritual to allow me to shower off after sharing some wine. We retired upstairs to Miss J.F.'s love chamber. She said she would introduce me to Miss J.F. if I so dared. And I told her that was not out of the realm of possibility.
All that transpired over the next hour plus was a slow and sensual sharing of pleasure. We tested the strength of her bed chamber and exchanged multiple linguistic lessons.
She had told me she was surprised at the end of our encounter as she felt like she had been seduced by me.
Miss Joyfull is such a wonderful woman and person. Her playfulness and sensuality abound. There is no mistaking the amount of pleasure she derives from giving (but this time receiving).
And in the end we were both satisfied from a follow-up encounter. And the hope remains that one day I'll cross that threshold to meet Miss J.F. Or perhaps to fulfill a bucket list of FMF with Miss Joyfull and one of her friends.
Miss Joyfull is such a treasure.. Her lovers are quite spoiled to have such a fine woman/person with whom to share memories.


My place or yours next time Miss Joyfull?

Thursday, September 25, 2014

It's a gift. Succumb to it...

Do you ever have one of those intimate scenes where lips and limbs interlock in the most perfect of ways.  Where the dance of intimacy is an orchestration of passion with whispered endearments, wide-eyed amazement, breathy encouragement, punctuated with laughter and joy?
It's a gift, when two share such a connection.  I expect it to be my gift, when I'm requested to share my company with an admirer, for I know my playmates appreciate the ease with having my highly charged erotic self respond with multitudinous waves of pleasure to their attentions.  Being a natural giver, living a whole-hearted, hedonistic lifestyle, and wanting to make positive encounters happen for my playmates make it a 'sure' thing.

But when the Seductress, herself, is seduced and has no choice but to succumb to the undeniable power of the delicate mix of a sexy intellect, confidence, and sensual skill...
that is a gift for which I am most grateful.....and surprised to receive.  
Many feel shy about their performance in bed and are grateful for the opportunity to have an accepting, encouraging playmate, but still feel unsure of themselves and surely miss out on earth-shaking experiences.  It should be no surprise that those who are eager to learn and are sincere in their intent, can develop their skills to become an even more effective lover.

That's a gift too.  And it can be learned.  Where to start?  With yourself.  ​“What do you want?"  That question is the gift you give to yourself.  Then, choose that partner who can help open the door for your exploration and bring about a greater awareness of sensitivity and sensuality in your intimate encounters.  Perhaps you don't know what you want, but the right person can help you find the answers in a playful, positive way.

Back to that Seductress.  Succumbing surprises me.  Why? Probably because I'm a giver, as I mentioned previously, and find it immensely satisfying to make others feel good.  It doesn't occur to me to seek the same and it knocks me flat on my back, so to speak, to experience those times when I am the seduced, not the seducer.  Engaging in sexy, fun encounters is one thing, but letting go and succumbing to overwhelming desire and passion with one's lover is quite another.

That's what I call feeling alive.  I'm grateful for that gift.

One more thing.  Is it hard for you to receive gifts?  To let go and be gifted?  This is not just in reference to receiving in bed, but in many aspects of daily living.

Here is a quote from a surprising source.

"The greatest gift that you can give another person is to graciously receive 
whatever it is that they want to give us."  
Fred Rogers  

Try it.  Graciously receive.  Succumb.

(Yes, it occurs to me that 'receiving' and 'succumbing' are a personal challenge for me.  All the more reason to share my insights 
and learning with you.)
(my philosophical look 'wink')

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Taking a BITE out of the Big Apple!

A whirlwind opportunity whisked me away to the Big Apple for a
pre-Birthday Party with a dashing fellow!


How could I turn down such a romantic invitation?

It turned out to be an event of epic proportions!

Here were my packing instructions:

Almost every moment with me will be spent bare.  If you need to go to the door for room service, that’s why you’ll have my dress shirt.  
Whether you button it or not is up to you.

Bring a Little Black Dress.  Pick the one that makes you feel like the sexiest, happiest you.  And easiest for me to lift, shift, pull, fondle, drop to the floor to get to what I want.  
I’m not just thirsty, I’m hungry as well and need to be fed.  
That’s why you’re coming…

 
Now you know why my hair is such a mess in the above picture.

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First, I can't begin to express what appreciation I have 
for the thoughtfulness and sheer sexiness of this amazing person.  

Additionally, they knew it was truly a challenge for me to take the role 
as receiver, and receive I surely did.  

It might make you blush to know the gamut of opportunities for me
in being open to receive pleasure,
 for my birthday party was wildly hedonistic and sweet.

I'd say the Big Apple took a big BITE out of me!

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Wide Open Receiver ~ Go Seahawks!

28 Ways to be a Better Lover

A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.


Day 2 - Be more playful, open minded, and willing to receive.

Today is also the BIG day for Seattlites with the Seahawks going to the Super Bowl!

Did you know that one of my football-loving gentleman friends voted me Most Valuable Player of His Year as Wide Open Receiver?
He jokes that I am a wide open receiver who does not have power outages, and though there may not be black-outs, there will definitely be power surges.  He certainly makes me smile with his playfulness!

I'd love to watch the Super Bowl with a special friend, especially positioned not to miss any action.  


Add my friend, Joanne, seen with me in the pictures here, and your prowess as a s*xual athlete would surely be tested!



Yes, we've had the slew of questions about tight ends, watching one of us go down field on the other, end zones, and scoring.   
It's fantasy football at its best!

 
 I actually don't know alot about football.  When I first heard him use the term 'Wide Open Receiver', I thought about me!  
That is how I feel about my life....my arms wide for embraces,
my mind and heart, ears and eyes all open to new ideas,
and well, you know about receiving....even though I think that's the one I have to work harder on, for I love to give,

I'm also excited to receive your presence and excitement...

...as well as the particulars for planning your playoff date with me.

Let's Play!