28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 8 - Talk About It
Pushing each others boundaries in bed can be exhilarating and rewarding, but you must learn to recognize when no means no.
There is a fabulous workshop being offered TONIGHT - Saturday, by The Center For Sex Positive Culture, an organization in Seattle - thecspc.org. As proponents of sex positive culture, the Center believes that the
appropriate uses of sex extend beyond reproduction. They include
creating personal pleasure, bonding intimate relationships, promoting
spiritual growth, and enhancing emotional and physical health. In a sex
positive world, everyone has the freedom and resources to pursue a
fulfilling and empowering sex life. The workshop is called Exploring Boundaries - Good Fences, and I highly recommend it as an eye opener to stretching your boundaries and building up your communication skills to be more successful in your love-life.
I enjoy creating opportunities in my Shibari Chamber where my playmates can explore their personal boundaries with rope bondage. I also find it exciting to provide an experience that includes a variety of stimulating sensations....I call it a kinky massage. Sensory deprivation and play, stimulating percussive body sensations, tie and tease are all uniquely designed (mild to wild) to recharge you from tip to toe. Talking about boundaries, safe words, trust, and the like are always a prelude to any play such as this.
It isn't everyone's cup of tea, but the only way to know that is to talk about it. What new boundaries will you stretch and steamy discussions will you be having with your lover this month?
Come here, lover *wink*
