A gentleman admirer recently asked how he could pamper me. My first thoughts were just the fact that he was thinking of me and sharing his time with me meant the world to me. But he gently suggested he would like to do something more, something special...and encouraged me to think of ways he could make my life a gentler, more beautiful place.
How amazing is that? So, with that in mind...
Twenty-five Days til Christmas
or
Twenty-five Ways to please your Lover (me!)
1. Dark Chocolate and Red Wine - if you don't already know the healthful benefits of dark chocolate and red wine, as well, you should take a second look. And since this gentleman admirer already knew of my love for chocolate, he had a box sent to me of the most artistic, delicious chocolates I've ever had.
Here's proof ~
Before I devoured one of them, I had to take a thank you picture for him.
2. Yoga - my yoga practice is an important part of my well-being. Whether a single class, a month or year pass, or even attending a class with me, this gift would touch me/us in a very special way. I'm also eager to explore a fitness class, dance lessons, swimming, or racquet ball with a fine friend. Might that interest you as well?
3. Are you a 'sound' nerd like I am? At your last visit did you notice how my speakers have been aging or how I had to lug my computer around so we could enjoy the music I chose for us. How I'd love someone to figure out a whole house system. Or maybe even some of those Bose headphones that would be particularly exciting for one of those visits where we play with sensory overload or deprivation!
4. What woman doesn't enjoy a trip to the hair salon? I am no longer coloring my hair and love the dark ask blonde sprinkled with my life's experiences. I know you love my perky hairstyle, and will appreciate that perfect stylist who knows just how to make my natural hair look great.
5. Give the Gift of Music. My closest friends know that I support the fine arts. There are those who are without the means to attend concerts or take music lessons. I like being an advocate for those people and making it possible for them to enjoy all the benefits of music. If this interests you, let's chat!
6. Give the Gift of Warmth. I support several charitable organizations that give travel-size toiletries, socks, gloves, hats, and coats to those in need, especially with the temperatures hitting the teens. I would love to connect with you, if you have items to donate.
7. The 7th Day of December is a Sunday. A day of rest. God, how glorious it would be not to have to tidy up around The Manor for one week. Dusting, vacuuming, scrubbing, etc. An Eco-groovy (since you know I live a clean and green lifestyle) cleaning service to make The Manor shine from tip to toe would be amazing.
8. The weather is probably biting and cold and the thought of sinking into a hot tub and enjoying a massage at The Little Red Day Spa would be simply amazing. They even have rather enticing packages available for couples.... :)
9. In thinking about enticing packages for couples, I enjoy offering Couples Bliss sessions along with one of my good friends, also skilled in touch. Two tables side by side while you and someone special receive an indulgent touch from two Goddesses of Touch. To make this possible, I would like to add a new massage table to my collection, preferably one that will be a bit roomier. I like supporting local businesses and have found that Zenith Supplies has all I need for my Healing Touch interests.
10. The 10th Day of December is Wednesday - Hump Day. Here's a fun place to enjoy the day in a sexy way. I like supporting the Center for Sex-Positive Culture and a renewal of my membership would be a great gift, plus I could hold your hand (or more) if you wanted to check it out too.
11. I know how you fellows love to keep your cars buffed and shining. I simply don't have the patience! I would rather buff and shine you. :) So, if a car wash and detailing is your thing, my nice new car and I would be ever so grateful.
12. The 12th Day of December is a good friend's birthday and he LOVES being tied up. I LOVE tying men up, but you already knew that. Look at this green rope from Twisted Monk (the best hemp bondage rope supplier). I could truss you up like a Christmas Tree....evil smile.
13. Let's attend a Seattle Symphony Concert together, or perhaps you'd like to gift a season subscription, or a single concert. Yo Yo Ma will be playing in Seattle on May 3rd?! What a dream it would be for me to hear him in person. A cello is one of the few instruments missing from my music room. Maybe if I had one, I could be as good as Yo Yo.
14. Did you know I love to cook? A good chef's knife would make prep work a breeze. I'm told that this one fits in a smaller hand more easily, but then I discovered this one with an artsy look. Choices!
15. More kitchen cravings - I cannot help but drool when I see these, and I have been lusting after one since I was a teen. True story!
16. With continued thoughts of health and wellness an acupuncture appointment always makes a difference in my well-being. Perhaps the idea frightens you. If *I* can handle the needles, then surely you can. If you'd like to explore this idea, we could enjoy a Happy Hour appointment together!
17. One of my keen interests is in giving kinky massages. Though I have my own style and expertise, I have always wanted to take the Bondassage Training and Elysium Training by Jaeleen Bennis and have felt that this is an unattainable goal. You might be in store for a life-time of kinky massages should you make this dream come true.
18. My studies of tantra have been far-reaching, but another dream of mine is the Urban Tantra Professional Training Program with Barbara Carrellas. There are no words to express the depth of this work in my eyes.
19. It's the last Friday before Christmas. I'd rather be enjoying a bit of jazz than shopping. This is THE place to go and a lot of fun to experience with someone special. You just won't be able to stop smiling if we go together. Or if a private jazz concert is to your liking, a gift certificate for sheet music at a local music store would inspire me to learn your favorite piece.
20. I do not often indulge, for my feet are so ticklish, but I love have my feet pampered and always wear toe rings and pretty polish. Toe rings are always adjustable, so the size won't matter, and this is my favorite spot for a pedi/mani.
21. The Longest Night of the Year is this day. Wouldn't it be nice to share it with the twinkling of many lights, perhaps escaping to Leavenworth for the final night of the tree lighting? I have never experienced Leavenworth, but you and I could! Candles could be a good substitute for this evening and a promise of a getaway trip planned for the future.
22. Sometimes I feel like a real dinosaur when it comes to techie types of things. The one gadget I use every day, all day (it seems), and is my number one necessity is my computer. Mine is rather old and so low on memory that it is limited in its functionality. Replacing it would be a godsend!
23. Sometimes it's just gifts of little acts of service that can bring a grateful smile to someone's face. Raking leaves, mowing the lawn, trimming the trees, or a multitude of other 'handy man' types of things are so appreciated.
24. I've been neglectful of all those dainty, feminine things that I love to wear...lingerie, bracelets, scarves, dresses, shoes, fine stockings, earrings, silky things, velvety things, leather, cashmere. All those sensuous things that make you want to touch, or exclaim "how beautiful".
25. Donate a Christmas Tree and Holiday Dinner to someone without, or if you wish for me to be a recipient, I prefer plants that are potted from this garden store and a lovely meal at Lark!
