Friday, February 14, 2014
Thursday, February 13, 2014
Starry-Eyed
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 13 - Star Gazing
What better time than a Full Moon evening to gaze up at the stars. Surely you've experienced a romantic night with a lover, enjoying the Full Moon's enchantment. As a teen, I recall parking at an overlook and admiring the night sky, as well as being all starry-eyed with the sexy person next to me....that is, until the policeman rapped on the car window and told us to move along. We couldn't see him approaching because the car windows were fogged up. Bring back memories?
If you are a serious stargazer, you'll know that the right place and the right moment, maybe even the right telescope or binoculars are needed to notice the small things.
Isn't that a lot like having a lover? If you watch them closely enough, you'll come to realize that they have certain ways about them that you will come to adore. You come to be attuned with their bodies, with what charges them up and makes them feel good. Most people only see these things after a long time in their relationships, but if you get a head start noticing those small details, you can be a better lover right now with the one you're with.
By all means, be starry-eyed and enjoy the rush of excitement, but if you balance that with paying attention to details, you'll fly to the moon and back!
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Pushing Buttons
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 12 - A Magic Touch
I have been blessed to possess a body that is highly sensitive and multi-orgasmic. I'm one huge erogenous zone! I love to have my hot buttons pressed, but it takes a magic touch and finding someone who truly listens to my cues and watches my body for responses. Of course, I know exactly how to press my own buttons.
Now, just because I said I love to have my hot buttons pressed does not mean to treat anything like a button. I am much like most women I know, and cannot handle direct stimulation on my clitoris, much like the glans of a penis after orgasm, or even on my nipples.
Here are the basics:
Genitals are not an
elevator button that can just pushed repeatedly with hopes to get
results.
Nipples are not radio knobs.
Mouths....well, think back to the first posting of this month long topic to 'The Art of Kissing' and re-consider what might be hot to do with a tongue from the get go.
In fact, consider thinking of the whole body as being an erogenous zone and not just 'the pink parts. There may be other zones that are begging to be spoiled, and by exploring you will find all those magic places.
Think circular movements
and variations in pressure, direction, and motion, and the attention to cues and responses to be most successful.
And last, but not least, ask what feels good! Experiment and have fun!
I love expanding 'my magic touch' abilities and find it particularly exciting to discover my lover's hot buttons. It's a treat to encourage them to completely relax and melt under my full attention with a slow and soothing touch that elicits signs, moans, and gasps.
Wouldn't you love the magical touch of a feminine presence devoted to uplifting you to a new awareness? Imagine developing your touch and intuitive skills to drive your lover wild. And if you'd like we can practice together to find each other's hot buttons.
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
It takes Two to Tango
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 11 - The Dance of Intimacy
It has always been my secret passion to be a great dancer.
It is my secret passion to have the perfect dance partner.
The perfect dance?
Oblivion - The Tango of Intimacy
A dance brimming with passion.
Who says it better than Robert Frost?
"Dancing is a vertical expression of horizontal desires."
The moment you step close, pulses quicken. You can feel the arousal,
the heat in each other's body. And then with just the lightest touch of your hands
on each other electrifying the moment, the energy turns into action and you begin to move together...
it is like poetry in motion.
How do you describe the sensations when you dance with a lover?
The writer of tangocorazon.wordpress.com, who has a life long search for the essence of tango, uses these adjectives to describe tango:
Dynamic, sensual, social, fascinating, playful, romantic, improvisational, elegant, fun, challenging, transcendent, accessible, clear, vivacious, luscious, graceful, refined, superlative, awesome, sublime, frisky, lively, captivating, alluring, intriguing, delightful, pleasurable, and mysterious.
These are perfect adjectives to describe the relationship between two lovers as well. Use these adjectives as creative inspiration to create a dance of intimacy with your partner.
Take a step further and actually take dance lessons with your sweetheart. It would be a wonderful gift for the upcoming romantic holiday.
Or
For further inspiration, a performance of the simply outstanding Mark Morris Dance Group at The Paramount Theatre in Seattle, February 14 through 16, 2014.
New Love Song Waltzes, which has become something of a signature piece of the company, gives expression to an all-embracing amorous gusto.
Love Song Waltzes is, in comparison, a more thoughtful, more restrained view of passion.
Two ravishing dance works are performed to Brahms’ song cycles, Neue Liebeslieder Walzer and Liebeslieder Walzer. They effect a deeply affecting homage to loving relationships of every kind and size. Set to Brahms’ Liebesliederwalzer, Op. 52, and Neue Liebesliederwalzer, Op. 65, they paint a revealing picture of love in our time.
Any way you choose to consider dance, celebrate the expression of passion in this art form as indeed another way to be a better lover.
Monday, February 10, 2014
You Look Fantastic!
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 10 - Compliment Your Sweetheart
Like many women, I spend a great deal of time selecting every detail of an outfit depending on multiple factors. The best thing my sweetheart can say is "You look fantastic!" Noooo, not even "that's a beautiful dress" or "I love your earrings." A woman wants to know she looks fantastic and that every detail she chose brought out her most attractive features. Say this to a woman who just prepared for you and see what happens.
Need a few more compliments that a woman will love?
"I like the way your mind works"
"I could talk to you all night"
"Your smile lights up my day"
Of course, you'll need to really mean it! These kinds of compliments get a woman in the mood. Or perhaps I should say they get me in the mood. Trust me, I know. These are some compliments I've tucked away in my heart from special admirers that I will always remember.
By the way, sometimes no words are needed. A sudden, passionate kiss after she see your eyes on her will show your appreciation.
Speaking of Fantastic, Symphonie Fantastique with the Seattle Symphony and Morlot conducting is happening this week, just in time for Valentine's Day and for you to practice your complimenting skills. I would adore dressing up for you and the symphony!
To inspire you .... From the Seattle times -
Hearts and flowers, a box of chocolates and a candlelight dinner are a perfectly acceptable way to show a sweetheart you care.
But if each day is truly Valentine’s Day and your infatuation with someone regularly crosses over into obsession, well, take a tip from Hector Berlioz and write an entire symphony about it.
Berlioz’s “Symphony fantastique,” composed in 1830 (revised in 1832) and inspired by his fixation on Irish-born actress Harriet Smithson, is the musical anchor for Seattle Symphony Orchestra’s Valentine’s week program of deeply — sometimes wildly — expressive music.
The program will find SSO music director Ludovic Morlot leading the orchestra through Berlioz’s story-driven “program symphony.”
Berlioz’s sometimes startling, written introductions to the work’s five movements — detailing an increasingly dark narrative about an artist’s “infernal passion” for a woman — will be in the program.
An important touchstone from the early Romantic period, “Fantastique” was inspired by a 24-year-old Berlioz’s presence at an 1827 production of “Hamlet” in Paris, where he was thunderstruck by Smithson’s performance as Ophelia. The colorful, impetuous Berlioz sent Smithson’s love letters, which went unanswered.
“Symphonie fantastique” is a drama about a musician haunted by an ideal woman and his subsequent descent into jealousy, self-destructiveness and delirium. Smithson eventually attended a concert (the audience also included Chopin, Liszt and Paganini) featuring a revised version of the piece and only then realized her connection to it.
Berlioz and Smithson married a year later. (Let’s skip the part where they eventually broke up.)
“Symphonie fantastique” was praised in an article by Robert Schumann, another giant of the Romantic era.
“The whole thing revolves around fantasy, and we know Schumann loved Berlioz’s format of fantasy,” says Morlot.
Small wonder the “Fantastique” is paired in the Seattle Symphony program with Schumann’s 1850 Cello Concerto in A minor, another essential Romantic work.
“I always find Schumann and Berlioz go well together,” says Morlot by phone from Brussels. “More and more, I want to offer music by Schumann to Seattle. It’s not so easy to program his music on its own and get an audience, so pairing him with a Berlioz warhorse from the Romantic repertoire, in the context of Valentine’s week, is an opportunity.”
French cellist Xavier Phillips, who has previously appeared with the Seattle orchestra, is guest soloist on the concerto. The piece, never played in Schumann’s short life, famously defies a few conventions by presenting no breaks between movements and downplaying virtuosity for much of its length.
The Cello Concerto includes musical gestures toward Clara Schumann, the composer’s wife, including a kind of dialogue between two cellos representing the spouses in the lyrical second movement.
SSO’s program opens with Emmanuel Chabrier’s 1891 “Bourrée fantasque,” written for solo piano but intended by Chabrier to be fully orchestrated. The latter task was left unfinished by the composer, and Morlot is presenting an 1898 orchestration by Felix Mottl.
“Chabrier is one of those French composers no one plays anymore,” says Morlot. “The piece is so inventive with melodies and it’s a wonderful little jewel. I just wanted to introduce a new voice to the Seattle audience.”
I love this - “I always find Schumann and Berlioz go well together,” says Morlot. Here we have 'complements' to go along with the compliments.
How are you doing with your preparation for Valentine's Day? Have you tucked a few pearls of wisdom away or just had a good chuckle as you've been reading this month-long posting, or have you just gotten tickets to the symphony and are planning to invite me tonight?
Pairings, Praise, Passion
Day 9 - Pairings
Day 10 - Praise
Day 11 - Passion
More to come soon. I had a busy weekend, but thought I'd give you some time to ponder what was coming.
Day 10 - Praise
Day 11 - Passion
More to come soon. I had a busy weekend, but thought I'd give you some time to ponder what was coming.
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Pairings
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 9 - A Complimentary Union
You always know when you meet someone who has that special connection with you. Things flow naturally, and often times surprise you with explosive chemistry. Opposites attract, right? Do you think that is what makes a complimentary union? Or perhaps a mix of 'opposites' with 'like minds'? Unusual unions, so to speak.28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 9 - A Complimentary Union
Tonight there is an interesting opportunity for you and your lover to dabble in some unusual unions for
"A Bit of Foreply Before The Big Day"
with the Pike Brewing Company's Annual Pike Cocofest!
(from pikebrewing.com/newsletters)
The Pike Brewing Company is celebrating our Sixth Annual Pike Chocofest on Sunday, February 9, 2014, from 6:00pm to 9:00pm. We hope you will join us! All proceeds benefit Puget Soundkeeper, a local non-profit dedicated to keeping Puget Sound clean!
Pike Chocofest began in 2009 as a romantic experience, to expose the sensual relationship between chocolate and beer, as Seattle is a love-nest for both. Wine, spirits, cider and mead also pair deliciously with chocolate, though perhaps they are not as orgasmic a combination as with beer.
“Au contraire” you say! Pleasurably answer that question at Pike Chocofest 2014 where a wide variety of potables will be paired with chocolate and savory comestibles… a tasting from, as they say, “soup to nuts” and “sweet to savory.” In 2013, over 500 people attended and experienced food and drink from over 70 vendors; an orgy for food and drink lovers!
Pike Chocofest is a pleasure for vendors and guests alike; a Valentine’s gift for everyone involved, including Puget Soundkeeper for helping to keep local waters pristine for another love potion featured at Pike Chocofest, oysters on the half shell.
Sounds like a blast and I hope to attend. But back to pairings...
I have several playmates I enjoy mixing with a third, so that the pairing turns into a trio with all the delightful activities that ensue with such a concoction. I've often mentioned Joanne, Miss Ava, and Victoria Rage, for we've had many an opportunity to titillate our playmates, and I know each will complement a specific interest for an inquiring playmate. Plus there are a host of other women with whom I would happily make devious plans. I should also make mention that I have a stunning array of studly fellows (all sizes, shapes, and ages) available for an assortment of explorations as well. It has been a joy (no pun intended) to be the Sensual Alchemist for such play.
What are some interesting pairings to contemplate for a bit of fun with your lover? Be a sensual alchemist!
Mix:
something you want and something you need
lace and leather
wine and chocolate
shy and insatiable
Bach and Apocalyptica
sweet and sassy
lace and leather
wine and chocolate
shy and insatiable
Bach and Apocalyptica
sweet and sassy
Saints and sinners
Saints moaning, "Oh God" and Sinners panting, "That's HOT!"
Actually the only difference between a saint and a sinner is that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.
So, let me make you an invitation ~
I'd love to be a part of your future,
but just remember to
ABANDON ALL DECORUM (your past).
ABANDON ALL DECORUM (your past).
Let's explore pairings and complimentary unions.
Let me be your Sensual Alchemist!
With devilish laughter and an angelic touch ~
Joy
Saturday, February 8, 2014
Explore Boundaries
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 8 - Talk About It
Pushing each others boundaries in bed can be exhilarating and rewarding, but you must learn to recognize when no means no.
There is a fabulous workshop being offered TONIGHT - Saturday, by The Center For Sex Positive Culture, an organization in Seattle - thecspc.org. As proponents of sex positive culture, the Center believes that the
appropriate uses of sex extend beyond reproduction. They include
creating personal pleasure, bonding intimate relationships, promoting
spiritual growth, and enhancing emotional and physical health. In a sex
positive world, everyone has the freedom and resources to pursue a
fulfilling and empowering sex life. The workshop is called Exploring Boundaries - Good Fences, and I highly recommend it as an eye opener to stretching your boundaries and building up your communication skills to be more successful in your love-life.
I enjoy creating opportunities in my Shibari Chamber where my playmates can explore their personal boundaries with rope bondage. I also find it exciting to provide an experience that includes a variety of stimulating sensations....I call it a kinky massage. Sensory deprivation and play, stimulating percussive body sensations, tie and tease are all uniquely designed (mild to wild) to recharge you from tip to toe. Talking about boundaries, safe words, trust, and the like are always a prelude to any play such as this.
It isn't everyone's cup of tea, but the only way to know that is to talk about it. What new boundaries will you stretch and steamy discussions will you be having with your lover this month?
Come here, lover *wink*
Friday, February 7, 2014
Hot. Cool. Yours.
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 7 - Turn up the Heat
I love science, research, and sex. Not necessarily in that order. I do a lot of research and reading. Here is what I found on menshealth.com to give you a new way to be a better lover:
Climate is crucial for climax
Egyptian cotton and dimmer switches can't hurt, but your love chamber's thermostat is just as important, according to Dutch sex researchers. “At the beginning of our trials, only 50 per cent of our female subjects were able to reach orgasm," says study author Dr Gert Holstege, chairman of the centre for uro-neurology at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands. “But we learned they were uncomfortable because they had cold feet. We gave them socks and 80 per cent reached orgasm."
(I laugh when I read this for I have a lover who insists on keeping on his socks!)
The socks aren't the secret, though. "The amygdala and prefrontal cortex – the brain areas responsible for anxiety, fear, and danger signals - strongly decrease their activation during orgasm." says Holstege. "A pleasant environment, which includes the room temperature, is an important part of making her feel safe, secure and comfortable."
"Imagine the ideal day at the beach," says Tristan Taormino, a director for adult movie company Vivid Entertainment in the US. "You want it just warm enough that she's happy to shed a layer or two, but not so hot that you'll end up drenched once you exert yourself."
Let's shiver with excitement as we claim each others heart and soul
and turn up the heat!
P.S. How many of my readers knew that Hot. Cool. Yours. was the slogan of the
2014 Winter Olympic Games?
Thursday, February 6, 2014
An erotic story
I discovered Joy’s blog late last year, and was drawn to her offering of caresses, life’s experiences, maturity and toe-curling pleasure. She was kind enough to exchange several e-mails with a newbie and to then invite me for a visit. Not long into that first visit, I confirmed the accuracy of the mental image I had formed from her blog and e-mails-- she is indeed a very warm, smiling and friendly woman who energetically touches, plays and jokes until you beg for mercy. Now I am in Joy’s clutches, for it is difficult to imagine not visiting regularly,
A visit to Joy’s den of mischief not far from downtown Seattle begins with the front door opening and a smiling face soon peering around the door to welcome you. The smile becomes increasingly devilish with each successive visit. Once the door closes, you see all 5 ft. nothing of Joy in whatever outfit she has deemed appropriate for the occasion, season or mood, and you get one of the eight hugs that she says every human should receive every day.
Joy uses little rituals to set a mood and ease tension. First is a joint sloshing of tangy mouthwash, which you try not to choke on while laughing with her. Soon you are in her den and are requested to recline on her sofa, or playfully pushed onto it if you delay. Joy’s next move is to remove your shoes and socks, to disappear momentarily to her kitchen, and to return with a large ceramic bowl filled with warm, soapy water. You are asked to submerge feet in water, where they are lightly scrubbed. The effect is to drain you of all tension, but fingernails are devilishly used on the soles of your feet if the draining of tension has left you staring aimlessly into space. Feet are dried, you receive urgent assistance in removing your remaining clothing (you may have unconsciously been removing it already), and you are sent to an adjoining shower to make body match feet in cleanliness.
By the time you return, Joy has set up her table and you succumb to her ministrations, varyingly inflicted with most every part of her body, or with her whole body, and each piece of clothing that she removes is dragged lightly across you so that you are crystal clear as to what is going on behind your back. Once you are allowed to flip over, because otherwise you will clearly hurt yourself, ministrations continue with all body parts allowable under sensual touch rules, until you uncontrollably cry uncle.
It’s not my style to provide a blow-by-blow beyond the above, although long paragraphs could be written about Joy’s well-practiced touching, teasing, rubbing. Each visit has been a little different so as to generate small surprises. I am a big fan of the long, slow build-up to a draining finish, and Joy is certainly for you if you are similarly inclined. Mischief is one of Joy’s favorite words, and she mischievously reminds me that Joy is into much more than just Healing Touch-- I’m judiciously saving up my courage to eventually find out what that might be about.
Underneath It All!
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 6 - Undress to Impress
Don't you love seeing a beautiful woman in exquisite lingerie? Whether it's silky or racy, it sets your heart pumping and your fingers aching to trace her silhouette, and you are eager to reveal her in all her glory. But even better, how about getting from point A to point B, and finally to point C. A strip tease or burlesque!
I love dressing for a strip tease, perhaps a black velvet robe, stiletto heels, filmy sheer black baby-doll beneath, and a lacy black thong with a pearl crotch. I sit my lover back on a sturdy chair, the music is sultry and a bluesy beat, and I tease and tantalize him with my seductive show. Or why not have me sit back and you let loose with a show to make me smile. Fellows, there are many choices for underthings to show off your manly charms. I'll be eager to get my hands on you after such a dance.
Even if you have no idea how to move or dance. It's confidence that will win a lover over. Burlesque dancers exude confidence, no matter what their body type AND they can certain undress to impress!
Here is a member of Indianapolis' Angel Burlesque Sugar Rae:
"I saw my first Burlesque performance in April of 2010 when I went to
support my dear friend, Desda Mae Q Moana. I fell in love with all of
it immediately — the costumes, the theatrics, and the confidence of all
the performers. In June of the same year, Desda talked me into trying
out for the first Angel Burlesque performance, and I was in my first
show in September... First off, I've gained a lot of confidence from
doing burlesque, and I've learned to be proud of my own body. I think
that a lot of times women tend to be very judgmental of other women's
bodies (probably stemming from an insecurity about their own.) Burlesque
has taught me to respect all body types. Once I see those women and men
out there - tall, short, bigger, smaller, medium - flaunting what they
have with confidence and their head held high, I can see that each and
every one of them is beautiful and amazing. We should all support each
other. Not critique and make fun."We have some fabulous Burlesque shows here in Seattle, and in particular, shows perfect to take your lover to for a Valentine's Celebration this month.
Check out -
February 12 - 15 J'Adore - thetripledoor.net
February 14 - Hard Love - columbiacitytheater.com
February 18 - tuesdayteaseseattle.com
Those will give you plenty of inspiration to have fun when behind closed doors!
IF you are feeling even bolder and ready to impress, there is always the 3rd Annual Cupid's Undie Run, hilarity in charity on Valentine's Day weekend, with hundreds of half-naked runners taking to the streets in celebration of their fundraising for the Children's Tumor Foundation. Simply amazing. I want pictures if you do this, and I will have a wonderful surprise to reward you for your participation in this worthy event!
http://www.cupidsundierun.com/city/seattle/
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
Bloom Where You Are
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 5 - Flower Power
Flowers are always a romantic gift to give in this month celebrating Valentine's Day. What can you do to make it a bit special? Perhaps consider a potted flowering plant that could be transplanted into the garden when it is warmer, or continue to bloom all year round in the house. That way your thoughtfulness is a constant reminder to your lover. I must confess that I have potted plants from loving admirers all throughout my little Love Nest and Secret Garden - Christmas Cactus, Shamrocks, Ivy, Bleeding Heart, Orchids, and more. As much as I adore a beautiful bouquet of cut flowers, I love pampering my plant gift and remembering special times with a special someone.
Now, take one more step along the garden path and, if you have someone in your life who has a real thing for flowers (like me), you might consider the wonderful romantic gesture of taking them to the Northwest Flower and Garden Show, taking place at the Convention Center right now through this weekend. Just think of how your lover's desire will blossom to thank you properly for such a thoughtful gift of spending time with you in the beautiful gardens displayed at the show.
And then you can test yourself on the first 5 days of suggestions of 28 Ways to be a Better Lover and see if your lover fully blooms from your attention to kissing, play, undressing, aphrodisiacs, and a gift of flowers.
On a personal note ~ share what's blooming in your life with your lover. Winter is the perfect time to plant the seeds of dreams, thoughts, and new ideas. You may be surprised and delighted to find what new growth appears from sharing your dreams with someone who is deeply intimate with you. Of course I'm not just talking about the growth you experience every time you are with your lover, but most certainly there would be growth in revealing and reveling in new ways to experience pleasure with your lover.
See what interesting things pop up and, if you need even more inspiration, I'd love to plant a few bouquets of kisses on you to see where you'd like to bloom.
Tuesday, February 4, 2014
Better Than A Box of Chocolates
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 4 - Chocolate. Use it!
How many times have you heard jokes about why chocolate is as good as -- or better than -- sex?
Believe it or not, there is a scientific link between chocolate and
sexual arousal. Surely you've bitten into a piece of chocolate and moaned. It's time now to use chocolate to your advantage, except you'll be the reason your lover moans. Plus science is sexy. Do your research and learn more about aphrodisiacs and how they effect the body.
Chocolate IS one of my favorite aphrodisiacs, dark preferred....and given the chance, I'll use it in creative ways. Have you ever enjoyed sharing chocolates in an especially sensual way? Consider an indulgent chocolate experience in private with me. We'll take a paintbrush and an assortment of delicious chocolate syrups and design a dessert fit for your very own tongue. Or allow me to turn your body into my edible masterpiece. I especially like doing a blindfold test tasting of a few fine brands served on the most enticing setting of all - our bodies.
Want to really impress me? Bring me a Deathcake Royale from local Seattle bakeshop - Cupcake Royale. YUM - this includes sea-salted chocolate decadence, Stumptown espresso cookie crust, and Theo milk chocolate ganache!
We can enjoy it together is a steamy hot bubble bath (a topic for a future posting this month!), so that clean up is a breeze.
Consider this fantasy -
While you lay soaking in the heat, caressing a naked body,
and nibbling the Deathcake Royale
drip the chocolate syrup on to whatever catches your fancy and
let your hungry lips taste test that luscious new chocolate syrup...
not to mention those pert pink nips!
The moans to come will definitely be about more than the chocolate.
sea-salted
chocolate decadence, Stumptown espresso cookie crust and Theo milk
chocolate ganache. - See more at:
http://www.cupcakeroyale.com/deathcake-royale.php#sthash.SoDlNV2t.dpufsea
sea-salted
chocolate decadence, Stumptown espresso cookie crust and Theo milk
chocolate ganache. - See more at:
http://www.cupcakeroyale.com/deathcake-royale.php#sthash.SoDlNV2t.dpuf
sea-salted
chocolate decadence, Stumptown espresso cookie crust and Theo milk
chocolate ganache. - See more at:
http://www.cupcakeroyale.com/deathcake-royale.php#sthash.SoDlNV2t.dpuf
Monday, February 3, 2014
An Element of Surprise
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 3 - Undress your lover - s l o w l y
I always love undressing my lovers. It's that element of surprise, like unwrapping a present. Peeling back layer upon layer and finding bare skin, softly caressing each little patch exposed to my eyes, and noting how their body responds, watching their face flicker with pleasure as they feel my hot breath on their bare skin. It's as if they don't want me to catch them enjoying this oft forgotten act of intimacy. Most of my lovers strip off their clothes casually, tossing them aside while reaching at me eagerly to 'get it on'.
That's not to say that spontaneous combustion like the picture below isn't EXCITING!
It IS! It WAS!
But, back to my seductive plan. I do love a subtle approach.
You may notice that S L O W E R is a part of my daily mantra.
I have one lover who loves to surprise me from time to time, and the last time I got ready to peel off his whitey tighties, his eyes twinkled as he said, "I have a surprise for you!" As I cautiously pulled back the band at the top, decorative gel hearts cascaded to the floor. His briefs were overflowing with love (lust) for me! What fun and what a great surprise.
I occasionally will have a surprise for my lover to discover beneath my clothes, but only if I know it will be appreciated. I love beautiful lingerie and sexy fripperies, but there are many who just want to get it off and don't notice it. By the way, I'll write more about those seductive underthings in another post to come during the 28 Ways (Days) to be a Better Lover. In the meantime, if I could just convince my lover to go slower and give me the same opportunity to savor being unwrapped. I suggest more practice....practice undressing a woman carefully, gracefully, seductively, showing you appreciate her with each layer you remove, and see how ready she is for you!
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Wide Open Receiver ~ Go Seahawks!
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 2 - Be more playful, open minded, and willing to receive.
Today is also the BIG day for Seattlites with the Seahawks going to the Super Bowl!
Did you know that one of my football-loving gentleman friends voted me Most Valuable Player of His Year as Wide Open Receiver?
He jokes that I am a wide open receiver who does not have power outages, and though there may not be black-outs, there will definitely be power surges. He certainly makes me smile with his playfulness!
I'd love to watch the Super Bowl with a special friend, especially positioned not to miss any action.
Add my friend, Joanne, seen with me in the pictures here, and your prowess as a s*xual athlete would surely be tested!
Yes, we've had the slew of questions about tight ends, watching one of us go down field on the other, end zones, and scoring.
It's fantasy football at its best!
I actually don't know alot about football. When I first heard him use the term 'Wide Open Receiver', I thought about me!
That is how I feel about my life....my arms wide for embraces,
my mind and heart, ears and eyes all open to new ideas,
and well, you know about receiving....even though I think that's the one I have to work harder on, for I love to give,
I'm also excited to receive your presence and excitement...
...as well as the particulars for planning your playoff date with me.
Let's Play!
Saturday, February 1, 2014
Kisses Sweeter Than Wine
28 Ways to be a Better Lover
A month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections.
Day 1 - Let's begin with The Art of Kissing.
Would you like to master the secrets of great kissing?
There's more to it than simply locking lips.
What have you been missin'?!
Kisses sweeter than wine?
Come here, darling, let me show you.
Kiss me again, for it takes lots of practice...
which is a good thing!
Thanks, Pete. Rest In Peace.
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regarding The Art of Kissing.
Here is a short excerpt from it about kissing the neck.
A very special place in my opinion.
- Kneel at her side.
- Run your lips up and down her neck.
- Whisper words of love as you kiss. Phrases such as, "Oh, you vixen!" or "My, what lovely ears you have!" will suffice. But if you can recite a sonnet or even a few lines from Robert Burns or Shakespeare or any number of other poets, she'll faint, just as the Queen of Persia did.
- Be careful with this one! You may have women falling in love with you. (from The Art of Kissing)
Frankly, if you have a Scottish brogue and kiss my neck like this, you will have completely captivated me and I shall not be of any use to anyone ever again!
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But back to my month long celebration of love, romance, and spicy connections...
I want to celebrate VALENTINE'S DAY in a special way and I'm planning ahead
with hopes that just the right person will want to join me for
~ a Symphonic Seduction including romance, repast, and recital ~
Expect a slow and subtle intimate exploration featuring
extraordinary kissing, fine dining out on the town,
and concluding with my favorite symphonic selection ever!
Truly a romantic celebration for the refined palate.
Who would like to step up and kiss me already?!
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