A Sensual Domme
I normally refrain from writing reviews but felt compelled to do so after seeing Joyfull. This is probably one of the most challenging ones I have written too - keeping parts private between us while at same time communicating about a wonderful evening...
A bit of history - Joyfull welcomed me to this venue when I first introduced myself many years ago - I think the same month she also came to this venue. I did not see her until just recently. We have communicated some to a limited degree, in various ways, off 'n on since then. We have talked briefly some at a couple of social functions. That night with Joyfull she said I had told her 'she was not my type'. GULP! I do not remember that but I know from experience never to argue with a lady. I have grown to respect people and enjoy them for who they are and hopefully enjoy me for who I am. And yes, Joyfull has intrigued me for some time now because I have learned more about her. Little did I know how much of a treasure she really is until now...
She and I had been communicating some recently and I sent her a one line email - Surprise, I want to see you. There was a short flurry of emails and our encounter was set. The agreement was: nothing special - just be yourself with no expectations. Joyfull communicated her standard methodology of meeting for the first time. I showed up on time and was warmly greeted.
There is a standard process/ritual she follows in preparation for follow-on activities. But little did I know how much she prepared herself for my evening with her. She made sure it was a special evening tailored to me - not because I asked her for nothing special but because it is who she is... We talked some and that is when she told me she was a sensual DOM.... HMMM - what is a sensual DOM I ask myself? A little later I soon found out... I also discovered I have some DOM in me - based on my reading of her body language and eyes. We did not butt heads nor try to control each other, but we figured out a way to make each other happy by being respectful of each other and understanding each other's desires without saying much verbally. In my experience this is lucky to occur, if at all, on the third or fourth date but for us it occurred naturally the first time.
I will not go into details of our wonderful evening together. I will say I found a way to keep her from talking, much less thinking coherently ---> a slow buildup with her will make her skin the most sensitive 'organ' found and extremely responsive to say the least. Our time together was for each other's enjoyment. We are both giver's and we both gave a lot because we wanted to... We both ended the evening on a high note at the same time - something rare indeed... Then off to her double-headed shower and I was out the door. I left a bit late - but there was some uncooperative elements and she would not take no for an answer.
Joyfull is one of those special ladies that understands her companion, plans and prepares, has surprises along the way and truly enjoys the company she is with. There is only one other lady I have been with that does this. IMHO - that puts Joyfull in the special level. What surprised me is she sent me a quick note after our evening almost before I left. All I will say is that what she communicated put a special smile on my face
